I hear you on the work thing. I've been really busy lately as well so I haven't been able to play much either.I've not played a lot recently, being busy with work and waiting for this update as I had a feeling I'd abandon any game I was in to try the character creation system, and I was right. I finally got one start to the forth day and now am trying again as I found out that if you don't take care of Roo and Niko's problems right away their establishments are abandoned!
The "abandoned" sites aren't actually abandoned, you just have to kill/capture whatever bandits spawned nearby and they'll be open for business again. If you play with dying world active I think they keep spawning frequently until you get control up to some minimal threshold. I'm not sure how high that is, maybe 20 or something? So you'll have lots of bandits to fight and frequently you'll be blocked from going to certain zones until you clear them. I couldn't even walk from Redhaven to Hamilton square one day without clearing some bandits blocking the way. Personally I like that but some might find it annoying.
How annoying or lucrative those bandits are is heavily RNG dependent as well. Sometimes you get sledgers, sometimes you get marines with assault rifles, and sometimes you get a group with 3 girls and a dude which is IMO by far the best one. If you save scum them you can always get the group with the girls, which means you can end up with a LOT of free female slaves very quickly.
From what I noticed, the extra bandits don't start spawning until day 2. So day 1 I pick up Ansel, Peasant, Bud, Doyle, Rifle Savant, Loren, and Dexter and that gives me enough combat strength to clear out any bandits that get in my way on day 2. I usually go pick up Felix and Aiko on day 2 or 3 as well, and Felix packs a significant punch that early.
I make sure to capture at least 1 slave in every fight and I sell all of the males for about the first month because I have so many things I need money for. I keep all the females.
Yeah there are a few bugs in the character creation screen that lets you cheese your way to traits you don't really qualify for if you do things like that.I took advantage of a little...trick...I learned about the character creation system. We won't call it an exploit of course because then it might get taken away, but if you raise your Charm manually on the Attributes page to get enough to take 'Attractive' you can then reduce it after getting the free ten points and end up with a Charm of 41.
I usually take 2 levels of soldier to qualify for deadly strike and tough and then go with expert slaver so I can have the story version of Adora. I haven't had enough time to play far enough to even know what her quest is yet but she's guaranteed to have workaholic and perfectionist if you take expert slaver which is a nice bonus. There's another random slave down in South Redhaven named Kate who is guaranteed to always have Shadowborn, which is essentially the equivalent of a stealth suit without requiring the actual suit.