are we still getting the bullshit version where content is locked behind a paywall?
I support devs that treat me with some measure of respect, Naughtyroad from Lightofmylife and Tinkerer for Peasant Quest first among them, even if I live in Eastern Europe and doing so ain't exactly cheap, (doubly now since the whole Russia idiocy). I do it gladly because they deserve it. If a dev treats me like a cashcow and believes that a paywall will entice me to give him money, it won't, all it will do is make sure I never support him.
So, if the tier 2+ content was available you'd consider that "treating you with respect" and support the Dev?
Hargan did a great job of summing up what is "paywalled". A gun which you would replace very early on, a slave (when we already have a surplus of main character slaves), stat bonuses that you can manipulate yourself, and access to early builds.
I'm not tracking the games you mentioned (I'll check them out), but I'd put money on Grimdark's updates far outpacing other independent developers.
I respect not everyone can afford to support game developers. Then again, the same recession that affects your wallet also affects the developer. Why complain that the developer is offereing some bonus material to people who have the willingness and ability to support him in order for him to spend more time developing the game? The supporters' money is allowing you to get more content and faster content for free.
EDIT: I took a look at both of the games you mentioned. One is a VN that has been in development for SIX years. The other game has been in development for 4 years.