Here you go proving my point again, and thinking you are smart lol.
Who told you its Cheating/NTR if they are gone speed dating? The sexual kinks the couple has to explore needs to start at some point, and that's where the speed dating comes in. CHEATING is different and consensually opening up a relationship is different, the later is not cheating, and that is what the speed dating is, consensually opening up the relationship.
I honestly believe now that you think you are making points with your arguments, but i don't think you realize that you are not making any sense when you counter things...