Hey, haven't played the early parts of this game for a long time, so not sure about that, but most night scenes like that are optional going forward. Also you do occasionally make choices which affect your "karma/affinity" that can impact the game later on. We don't know yet how much it will effect, so far it's mostly choices in H-scenes , there are a few really big choices too, but the karma system will probably lead to more substantial things down the line. For reference, I too thought he was a douche early on, but he grew on me over time as he starts actually thinking about how to achieve his goal, and I actually quite enjoy his character (when he's not busy being a horny bitch and only thinking with his dick that is). Hope this helped.