I'll just go a head and fact check you right now!
Canonically Spider-Man can lift 10 tons, and sometimes more depending on the writer. His strength is superhuman but nowhere near the top-tier Marvel bricks like Hulk, Thor, Colossus, etc. Emma Frost is indeed an Omega-level "telepath" but we're not talking telepathy here "by me saying he can lift 10 tons indicate I'm talking about physical strenght", but not an Omega-level physical powerhouse. In her diamond form, she does gain superhuman durability and some enhanced strength. Her diamond-form strength is usually shown to be around Class 10, roughly comparable to Spider-Man, but sometimes it's even lower. She is not portrayed as a heavy hitter like Colossus or She-Hulk. Her diamond strength also varies by writer, but it is rarely above Spider-Man’s level. So physically she's not able to overpower him at all. I never said anything about telepahty and the those WIPs doesn't show any signs of telepahty only signs physical femdom.