I'm happy you brought this up. About IRL cuckolding. When I did my session is was between 2008 and 2010.
If it was a private session then sure, I played up the sexual inadequacies stuff. But not every man I cucked had
a small dick. They just got off on Femdom. When I worked with couples I made sure to work with the wife to
not only help her be comfortable with the roleplay but find actual sexual gratification in it. Because there is
lots of sexual gratification for a woman to find in it that doesn't have to devolve into humiliation of their
partner. I mean if they have a dry spell, right? And maybe they have been married for a long time, the
cuckold play can be a way to make each partner find new arousal in the other.
Not being able to touch your wife while she arouses you can really open your eyes up to things about her
that you might have forgotten, over looked or honestly missed. Reigniting that flame. That desire for her.
And that power play can make her see her man in ways that she didn't before. Not as weak but as sexual.
If that makes sense. That feeling of being desired so bad by him. That feral look she might not have seen
since the first time they had sex. Or if their first time wasn't so great this activity replaces it with something
much more exiting. So when I see the whole "I can't satisfy her." I'm left with you aren't even trying. You
just gave up. you just decided it wasn't worth an effort. Especially if she's clearly trying. It just annoys me
when MCs give up and declare defeat without even lifting a finger to try.
Don't make me want to cheat on you hahaha
My wife and I had an open relationship for several years, and we both had our fair share of playmates. We didn't play together all that much but if we did, it was usually with another man. I don't really get jealous but my wife sometimes would (which made things...interesting). I never worried about losing her (at least not to the lifestyle) or anything like that. I think ultimately, sharing only strengthened our relationship. We did it more out of a need for sexual freedom rather than trying to "fix" anything. When we stopped we both found it quite easy to do so, but circumstances forced our hand in that regard.
I know you mentioned it earlier and other people have discussed it so I'll just include this here, but I never saw myself as a cuck. I suppose being a third for other couples helped in that regard, but I'm also a Dom only so there was never any Femdom when I was involved, the only experience I had of that was hearing about some of my wife's exploits. If any of our thirds tried to introduce any humiliation etc. my wife and I would shut that down very hard and very fast.
I'm not in the lifestyle right now so get my thrills living vicariously through AVNs, it's probably no surprise that my two favorites in active development are this game and another one focused entirely on netorase. Helps that the writers of both have real world experience to draw upon.
As an aside, surely it's better to just give people the benefit of the doubt rather than worry about what's real and what's fake on the internet...that's a fools errand. Let's just enjoy the conversation
