- Apr 30, 2022
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I do get your point and not surprised why people doesnt like ntr. It is simple. you said it yourself "It portrays a ruined relationship or ruined hopes for one, it mocks sexual inexperience, shyness, low social skills and it tends to bodyshame." Or low selfsteem people. And to some that is a fact in real life. So judging from what you said i believe you are one of them.(+people who hate ntr but also acting they hate vanilla for a cover) you didnt see neither i think you understand my point.Although you triedhard enough to seems to have a neutral ground, but in the end it became obvious.Pretty much everyone can distinguish between real life and fiction. There's a diagnose for people who can't. So this argument is very much missing the point. Do you think people who have emotional reactions to fiction are convinced that what's happening is actually real?
I'm sure you have heard of what's called suspension of disbelief. In order to enjoy fiction we do have to deceive ourselves (or be deceived?) somewhat in order to enjoy a good story. That allows as to 'believe' what is happening, it allows as to empathize with the characters. If we don't, we don't really care about what's happening in the story.
Have you noticed that even in a video game it's much easier to kill a monster or some thug with a gun than a character with a personality, or someone who's begging you to spare them? That's because they are humanized - they're given actions or emotions you can relate to. Most people, unless they have psychopathic traits, will be at least somewhat distraught about killing such characters. Feels a bit real. That's when the whole "It's just a video game" defense kicks in.
What does this have to do with NTR? The genre usually (yes, there are plenty of exceptions) portrays a sociopathic, aggressively masculine, immoral character manipulating, coercing or raping a woman until she starts liking sex with him, because apparently that's sexy. It portrays a ruined relationship or ruined hopes for one, it mocks sexual inexperience, shyness, low social skills and it tends to bodyshame. And the characters involved, even if the plot is dumb as hell, tend to be plenty humanized, because that's kind of required for NTR to work. And yet here we have hordes of NTR fans not only having no trouble with it (or purposefully desensitizing themselves to it), but masturbating to the whole idea. So why are ntr fans acting surprised that some people might have problems with how popular the genre is.
So "why are ntr fans acting surprised that some people might have problems with how popular the genre is."
Simple. majority of ntr fans are female, and females likes masculine confident and agressive male.
So if you cant understand that. ntr is really just who you self insert yourself into. And obviously people will insert them self in who they can relate the most or like.(mostly)
Although over all you have a point but its very naive or to be precise it is one dimensional perception.
And i get that most people here hates ntr, so its pretty pointless to explain or make understand to those people who wont get it neither wants to understand. So enjoy your food i guess.
Also the "It's just a video game" isnt just a always a defense, it can be used as offense to mock people or frustrate them. And that doesnt mean it has any psychopathic traits in a person in real life. Or maybe if they do. With that logic then everyone has psychopathic traits including yourself.