While everyone is so into the slow update discussion I'll just sit here waiting patiently for it.
You guys need to chill and do your IRL stuff (or there are a lot of other games to jerk off to as well) while waiting and you will see time flies really fast. Not like you gonna die in the next few weeks or months.
And about "I donate, I am a patreon, I expect something in return". Well, donating and being a patreon are all voluntarily. If you don't like how things are handled you don't need to support him. If you support him by $$$ even after that, then you are accepting the fact that you are also supporting him mentally as well.