Can someone pls tell me how I can go through Lumiren, no option are offered to me
You might need to up your Willpower stat. Or your Power, or your Technique. One second... *Loads game and explores Cavern again*
Ok, 1) Make sure you're clear of trance effects between fights. Conscio Powder is the consumable item for that. When the game says you're free to use items, if you have any trance, use a Conscio Powder.
2) It takes Willpower to run, Power or Technique to Attack. There's also options to continue listening or give in, but I don't really recommend either of those unless you want to see a loss scene and pray the penalties away.
3) If you attack her and make your stat roll, you'll be offered a chance to have sex with her, which will have an affect that's like, half as much as a straight up loss against her.
I hope this helps.