Most people are civil on every site, the two I screenshot were the worst (there are some more, but as their criticism has some truth to it, screenshotting them would be unfair).
One of the problems about talking through the internet is that you don't know how old is the person you are talking with, his/her cultural background, or who will read your comments in the future. So I have to tread lightly to avoid offending players (present and future). When you are under the spotlight you can only answer with humor. I post with my name, and answering rude comments harshly would be counterproducent, as it would show me as an arrogant person (I think I am not).
If he paid the 50 years of alimony, I can leave my job and work full time in My Dorm! I had to try it... it didn't work.
Luckily most people are very civil on every site. F95 is, by far, the one with more comments, other than Discord, yours is the 3.055th, and around 850 are mine. The next in number of comments has around 300, and half of them are mine. The screenshotted site is in 202 with mine being around 50-70.
I said it a lot of times, one of the things I most enjoy about the dev job is talking with players, hearing to their criticism, answering their questions, and reading their theories.
Answering some trolls also form part of it, and they were the inspiration for the 2 kids that harass the new girls, so even trolls are useful.