VN Ren'Py My Dorm [v0.23.1 S3 Ch.3] [Tropecita Games]

[noobtrain]

I was really liking the MC and his personality until this event happened in the game. I'm tired of the double standard and "my way or the highway" attitude. People with a possessive personality are usually insecure and constantly fear that their love interests will leave them. This leads to being controlling and dominating.

In all fairness, this rubs me the wrong way since I had a good female friend that this happened to. I tried to warn her about the guy but she was too much in love and ended up marrying him. He was so possessive and controlling that he didn't allow her to leave the house without being escorted by himself or one of his close buddies (she wasn't allowed to talk with other guys). After staying with him for several years she finally asked for a divorce and was strong enough to go through with it. He roped her back into his life and got her pregnant and she stayed with him for the child's sake. She became his property and he treats her like a possession. So yes, I'm a bit touchy with this topic for obvious reasons.

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[Trope95]

I was really liking the MC and his personality until this event happened in the game. I'm tired of the double standard and "my way or the highway" attitude. People with a possessive personality are usually insecure and constantly fear that their love interests will leave them. This leads to being controlling and dominating.

In all fairness, this rubs me the wrong way since I had a good female friend that this happened to. I tried to warn her about the guy but she was too much in love and ended up marrying him. He was so possessive and controlling that he didn't allow her to leave the house without being escorted by himself or one of his close buddies (she wasn't allowed to talk with other guys). After staying with him for several years she finally asked for a divorce and was strong enough to go through with it. He roped her back into his life and got her pregnant and she stayed with him for the child's sake. She became his property and he treats her like a possession. So yes, I'm a bit touchy with this topic for obvious reasons.

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You are partly right. At that point the MC is partially behaving possessively. Today I would have written it differently for sure.
Now think of it differently: It is Emma who wants to start a relationship. She's been imposing since the night at the Twins (two days before) and hasn't wanted to talk about what she did that night. So far so perfect, Emma is within her rights to try. The MC accepts, but sets some ground rules. We all do when we start a relationship and there are rules that are taken for granted in the real world, like being faithful, that apply differently in that relationship, because Emma is the one who wants to start it. The MC knows what he wants at that moment and if he's with someone previously, he's not going to leave her for Emma. If he's not with anyone, he doesn't want to close doors for himself. But what he also doesn't want is to become a cuckold.
Unlike what happened to your friend (I had a friend in a similar position myself) he is not forbidding her from talking to other men or going out for a drink with her male friends (if she had any). He's just telling her that she's not going to be able to date other guys if she wants to be with him. But it's up to her to accept that or not. He's not forcing her. It's the first time he's had to set the ground rules (so far Norah and Eileen have given him carte blanche) and he hasn't prepared or perfected the speech. It ends up coming across as more possessive than I intended.

 

[noobtrain]

You are partly right. At that point the MC is partially behaving possessively. Today I would have written it differently for sure.
Now think of it differently: It is Emma who wants to start a relationship. She's been imposing since the night at the Twins (two days before) and hasn't wanted to talk about what she did that night. So far so perfect, Emma is within her rights to try. The MC accepts, but sets some ground rules. We all do when we start a relationship and there are rules that are taken for granted in the real world, like being faithful, that apply differently in that relationship, because Emma is the one who wants to start it. The MC knows what he wants at that moment and if he's with someone previously, he's not going to leave her for Emma. If he's not with anyone, he doesn't want to close doors for himself. But what he also doesn't want is to become a cuckold.
Unlike what happened to your friend (I had a friend in a similar position myself) he is not forbidding her from talking to other men or going out for a drink with her male friends (if she had any). He's just telling her that she's not going to be able to date other guys if she wants to be with him. But it's up to her to accept that or not. He's not forcing her. It's the first time he's had to set the ground rules (so far Norah and Eileen have given him carte blanche) and he hasn't prepared or perfected the speech. It ends up coming across as more possessive than I intended.

Thank you for the reply and for being respectful! I understand what you are saying and I agree that it should have been worded differently. It is true that what is happening in the game and the example with my friend are vastly different but the core of both scenarios is a possessive personality (which can take many forms). I don't feel that it is relevant on who starts or wants the relationship however (the playing field should be equal). If the guy can see other girls the girls should be able to see other guys (an open relationship for both parties).

Your reply speaks volumes about you. Instead of going into instant attack mode you had a level head and tried to understand where I was coming from (unlike some of the fanboys on this site). Overall, I think the game is very well done. This dialog just really hit me where it counts unfortunately. The whole "I can be with other girls but you can only be with me" dialog could have been left out entirely in my opinion. It just makes the MC seem insecure which is a common trait among possessive personality types.

Thank you for your hard work and dedication to this project! I wish you the best of luck and success on it!

 

[Trope95]

Thank you for the reply and for being respectful! I understand what you are saying and I agree that it should have been worded differently. It is true that what is happening in the game and the example with my friend are vastly different but the core of both scenarios is a possessive personality (which can take many forms). I don't feel that it is relevant on who starts or wants the relationship however (the playing field should be equal). If the guy can see other girls the girls should be able to see other guys (an open relationship for both parties).

Your reply speaks volumes about you. Instead of going into instant attack mode you had a level head and tried to understand where I was coming from (unlike some of the fanboys on this site). Overall, I think the game is very well done. This dialog just really hit me where it counts unfortunately. The whole "I can be with other girls but you can only be with me" dialog could have been left out entirely in my opinion. It just makes the MC seem insecure which is a common trait among possessive personality types.

Thank you for your hard work and dedication to this project! I wish you the best of luck and success on it!

I'll never go into attack mode if someone exposes his/her reasons respectfully. In my view of the world, respect should be repaid with respect.
Allowing Emma to see other guys would ring NTR alarms whether she uses that right or not (she doesn't have any intention to use it, she is only trying to arm-wrestle the MC into not seeing other girls). The MC has been in an open relationship on both sides with Saira and none of them has used that right, but Emma is Emma, so he (who already can be in a relationship with Norah, Erika, and Eileen at that time) sets the ground rules. Eileen (if he's in a relationship with her) or AVNs (if he's not, since he's an f95 user) have given him the harem idea and he wants to avoid any NTR vibes.
Although I recognize that another wording would fit better, think about it in another light:
* Imagine the first girl the MC starts something with set a ground rule: They will have a monogamous relationship on both sides. The MC can accept it or not, it's up to him (or the player). She is also being possessive but it's up to the player to accept, because it's a kind of possessiveness we are used to in real life.
When a relationship starts the ground rules should be clear to avoid hurting anyone, and that's what the MC tells Emma. "I'm with other girls, or I plan to be, and I won't abandon them for you. But you won't start anything with other guys. It's up to you to accept those ground rules". Emma accepts because she thinks she can change the situation in the future once the relationship is established. Here the key is the "start" in bold. If she already was in a relationship, the ground rules could be different, but she isn't so opening the door to other guys is out of the equation.

 

[Vidal the king of Pervert]

I'll never go into attack mode if someone exposes his/her reasons respectfully. In my view of the world, respect should be repaid with respect.
Allowing Emma to see other guys would ring NTR alarms whether she uses that right or not (she doesn't have any intention to use it, she is only trying to arm-wrestle the MC into not seeing other girls). The MC has been in an open relationship on both sides with Saira and none of them has used that right, but Emma is Emma, so he (who already can be in a relationship with Norah, Erika, and Eileen at that time) sets the ground rules. Eileen (if he's in a relationship with her) or AVNs (if he's not, since he's an f95 user) have given him the harem idea and he wants to avoid any NTR vibes.
Although I recognize that another wording would fit better, think about it in another light:
* Imagine the first girl the MC starts something with set a ground rule: They will have a monogamous relationship on both sides. The MC can accept it or not, it's up to him (or the player). She is also being possessive but it's up to the player to accept, because it's a kind of possessiveness we are used to in real life.
When a relationship starts the ground rules should be clear to avoid hurting anyone, and that's what the MC tells Emma. "I'm with other girls, or I plan to be, and I won't abandon them for you. But you won't start anything with other guys. It's up to you to accept those ground rules". Emma accepts because she thinks she can change the situation in the future once the relationship is established. Here the key is the "start" in bold. If she already was in a relationship, the ground rules could be different, but she isn't so opening the door to other guys is out of the equation.

meanwhile, us monogamy players are over here chilling with are milf

I am with her she is with me and no one else

I'm not going to lie it's pretty awesome

but on a side note am I

the only one that's into possessive women it makes me feel loved

if I catch you with another woman I will kill you God that shit gets me so hard

mmmm.... I'm sorry what are we talking about again

 

[WICKEDp4th]

but on a side note am I

the only one that's into possessive women it makes me feel loved

Where have you been?
What have you done?
Why haven't you answered my Call?
Why did it took you 15 minutes to call back?
I've sent you 25 messages, you didn't answered!
You're cheating on me, don't you?
...

That's not love, that is terror.

 

[FatGiant]

Careful HP, they usually have

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Stay at a prudent distance.

Peace

 

[Vidal the king of Pervert]

Where have you been?
What have you done?
Why haven't you answered my Call?
Why did it took you 15 minutes to call back?
I've sent you 25 messages, you didn't answered!
You're cheating on me, don't you?
...

That's not love, that is terror.

okay my brother maybe you didn't hear me I'm into

that's what I'm into

I love monogamy and possessive woman

TropecitaGames

bro do me a favor and explain it to him

 

[WICKEDp4th]

 

[HornyyPussy]

The insults were started by the others I simply replied so please just tell the same to those who think normalcy is wrong - you know the way god actually intended us to be, and it's ok if others differ I'm actually not against that - I'm just against the abuse normal people now take from all the others and I was hoping your story wasn't going to add to that.

No, the insults where MOST DEFINITELY started by you, the fact that you can't see that is quite frankly terrifying.....

 

[HornyyPussy]

the four new girls are ugly

Nope

 

[xapican]

the four new girls are ugly

Well, Ugly girls need love too so no problem I take care of them !
Vidal the king of Pervert , hahaha all of us are to some point posesive, Romanic (Latin, and Hispanic including Italian and French) women are a bit more than the others, seems to run in the Genes (No expiriece with asiatic and Romanian here) so yeah if it makes you happy why not !

 

[FatGiant]

i really didnt ask your opinion on my post nor i really care about it.

Did we ask for your opinion on the girls? So, if we have to take your nonsense, expect to take ours too... Fair is fair.

Peace

 

[goulet1995]

this thread has been fun today maybe after religion we can start debating our personal views on politics

 

[xapican]

goulet1995 ; It was a reenactig or the "Olimpic apple of discord" which triggered the Troyan War
So yeahh welcome to Dorm Wars, think of it as a Pillow fight !

 

[Trope95]

this thread has been fun today maybe after religion we can start debating our personal views on politics

My politics are dictated by

So I sure will be purged once again

 

[xapican]

TropecitaGames ; speaking of which you know there is not a true Dorm without a "Sexy Pillowfight"

Spoiler: just in case you run out of Ideas ;) XD XD

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[Trope95]

TropecitaGames ; speaking of which you know there is not a true Dorm without a "Sexy Pillowfight"

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It depends on who participates in it and their relationship with the MC.
If monogamous with Emma there isn't any problem. If the MC is in a relationship with any other girl, Emma's pillow will be loaded with stones.
Norah won't risk participating because of her pregnancy (and because she knows Emma's tricks)
Lisa will break a nail and will be crying in a corner.
Kate, Simone, and Debbie will compete to be the ones throwing the others out of the bed.
Alexia will be the referee
Daphne and Scarlett will remind the others about the rules of the International Pillow Fight Federation
Megan will sing the anthem
Kim will show the board with the round number
Samantha will heal the injuries produced by Emma's pillow
Maddie will order everyone around
Eileen will serve drinks
Erika and Martha will be in another room with the MC doing funnier things.

 

[FatGiant]

Martha and Erika FTW.

 

[xapican]

It depends on who participates in it and their relationship with the MC.
If monogamous with Emma there isn't any problem. If the MC is in a relationship with any other girl, Emma's pillow will be loaded with stones.
Norah won't risk participating because of her pregnancy (and because she knows Emma's tricks)
Lisa will break a nail and will be crying in a corner.
Kate, Simone, and Debbie will compete to be the ones throwing the others out of the bed.
Alexia will be the referee
Daphne and Scarlett will remind the others about the rules of the International Pillow Fight Federation
Megan will sing the anthem
Kim will show the board with the round number
Samantha will heal the injuries produced by Emma's pillow
Maddie will order everyone around
Eileen will serve drinks
Erika and Martha will be in another room with the MC doing funnier things.

Yaaaay ! Loved this proposition, of course all participans naked , Emma get's discualified and must be punished and gets a spanking with a feather fan I knew you got it all figured out !!!
Edit: for Vidal the king of Pervert he get's bossed around by the LI of his choice !