The problem here is how the relationships were built, with and without patch. Relationships that out of the patch are family, like Sam and Simone, are still under the purview of Patreon rules. It's not only the relationships to the MC, it's ALL relationships.
If the out of patch had been built without familial relationships, this would all be covered under the patch. It's too late now, to rebuild the entire game.
The payment processors have a too draconian strangle. We should be "happy" they even allow porn still. I think it's high time to move to something better.
Peace