Absolutely right. The problem I see is that the name and the flavor text don't do the game justice anymore if they ever had.Nobody is actually forced to play any of this content. If the Dev did what you and others wanted, I guarantee a load of people would object, on the basis there freedom to make a different choice later in the game was now being prevented. The easiest solution is to keep giving people the choice. And if you can get upset by that, maybe you shouldn't be playing a game like this?
Hotwifing and complete humiliation/sissyfication are different kinks and should be named accordingly in the description at least. Not to mention the totally useless choice system that sometimes doesn't even survive the next 4 slides.
I opted out sometime last year but still hold the hope that the dev might either fix the choice system or at least put proper tags on the game.