Maybe I'm misunderstanding your point ,are saying, for talks sake, and this has to be addressed with a real life senario to fully understand your thinking. if your wife came home one day and told you that your boss was about to sack you, and we were about to lose the lifestyle that I've become acustome too, but dont worry, for she fixed it by agreeing to betray you by cheating on you by agreeing to have sex with your boss when he wants, but as long as she promises too always come home to you, you'd be like, ahh baby, that great, your a super star, girl boss, you've just proved to me how much you love me, even though your cheating on me and humiliating me it's ok?