Wtf, talk about a weird rant. All I said was that I prefer a monogamous couple with a deviant side, to polyamory. Free pass equals no tension, is all I'm saying. If Vi goes about fucking every other guy because she desires it, and Erik does the same, while they may say they're still in a relationship - are they, really? What are they to each other, more than perhaps "good friends" and just another occasional fuck? The whole erotic "charge" of a scene between a LI and another guy is in flirting with adultery, assumptions of proper behaviour, etc. If it's free pass for everyone, it just doesn't do much for me. Yes, again, I prefer devious monogamy to "wholesome" polyamory.
Also prefer that fantasy relationships be perfect in that partners share everything, no barred doors. Want a confession? Locked doors make me feel insecure, because I know what insufficient communication can do to a relationship. A love interest who compartmentalizes a part of her own desires and pursues them independently of the main character makes me feel existential anguish. As in, the day we fucking die, whatever was never shared or given, is a void of loneliness. Don't think I suffer from a rare condition, a majority of games that focus on sharing, not NTR, just take this perfect couple fantasy for granted. But enough philosophy,
go call yourself dumb in the mirror.
I literally said I enjoy that the FMC has autonomy. My preference is that it be so, in a context where no desires or fantasies are kept away between partners. Nothing about limiting Vi's sexual desires, just a preference for their relationship to be one where Erik is first, foremost and ever-present (figuratively) as a part of herself, where no other man (or situation) would make her forget it, AND VICE VERSA. If this is suffocating, then just endorse that monogamy is suffocating.
To dwell on this further is taking the conversation into generic territory. I like generic banter, and philosophy and whatnot, just maybe not on this thread. Also don't want to sound like advocating for this game to conform to my preferences, as repeating oneself many times over might seem like.
Small add: if the game perchance went by an argument similar to Erik and Vi being swept away by their desires, out of their control, that would still work for me as long as any drama were episodical and "resolved" quickly, and each episode found them getting closer to each other. Soppy romance, I know, but still salvageable logic, with the alternative being that they eventually would break apart. Someone a while ago mentioned their relationship isn't sensible, or goes against the odds, given what they both are. If that were the case, they could either keep up with each other's antics and find themselves drawn closer along the way (soppy romance) or, at some point, snap away entirely (ntr).