Can't you like both? I mean Naira and Fanora are my favorites, but I also enjoy Nefari and Jade and some of the side girls. I frequently enjoy Esther (although I think she's a little overbearing sometimes) and Iris is fun too.
Honestly, the only woman in this game I'm lukewarm about is Velle and that has more more to do with her attitude than anything (okay. I'd also include the woman thst weren't part of the original plan like the Japanese restaurant owner). However, I'm aware that lots of people love Velle, and that's cool.
People should like who they like. At the end if the day, it doesn't ruin my enjoyment of the game that there's a character I'm less fond of.