I'm gonna hit you with some knowledge real quick:
About seven or eight times out of ten I'm willing to say, if someone can't differentiate reality from fiction enough that they call you a pedo for liking shota / loli stuff, THEY'RE the pedo and they're just projecting to try and reduce their own guilt. This has unironically been proven time and time again. The people most vocal about standing against it are frequently the actual perpetrators of it trying to throw people off.
And if they call you a pedo for just liking femdom, they're flat out stupid.
Both sides make valid points.
At the end of the day, people sating their urges through media is always better than actual people being harmed so that is already a plus for loli and shota.
But passing it of as completely normal to shine your pole or flick your bean to art that is obviously stylized to look like minors is not the right move and a slippery slope.
I personally don't have a thing for loli or shota, lolis are for head patting and not for womb plapping in my book, but the communities I follow don't let me shine in a very good light either.
As long as you know exactly what you are consuming and why and don't try to downplay it or sell it for something else it is perfectly fine as long as no real living beings come to harm.