Honestly the harem in this game is too big, i'd imagine most girls (especially the tribal ones) wont even get mentioned going forward.
i think we're at like 30 or 40 members now.
I don't even think about it as a harem, just a guy that isn't tied down and bangs everyone he talks to. I just ignore all the mushy love stuff. Under the best of AVNs it's like "you've known her like 4 hours, you ain't in love ffs." But, when there's this many it's like "can you even remember her name?".
To be clear, I'm not saying it isn't a harem (or three to five harems), it's just how I suspend belief to make it make sense.