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I'm going to ask because it conflicts with my understanding. if it's at the end, seems to me that since the son has no clue until discovered - wouldn't that make it more a "cheating" / "infidelity" story line than a true netorare storyline? I mean, true netorare would have the son aware much earlier and having to suffer through it all, wouldn't he?
The required destruction is there. She informs him that while she will be staying in the home she will be with the father.
 

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The required destruction is there. She informs him that while she will be staying in the home she will be with the father.
You avoided answering my questions by answering the question(s) you wanted to answer.

It is my understanding that main difference between simple "cheating" / "infidelity" and netorare is the fact that the person who is cheated upon is aware of it and goes through the suffering. Is there is no pain, there is no netorare - so that goes back to my 2 questions:
If it's at the end, seems to me that since the son has no clue until discovered - wouldn't that make it more a "cheating" / "infidelity" story line than a true netorare storyline?
I mean, true netorare would have the son aware much earlier and having to suffer through it all, wouldn't he?
 

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I think the modest version of fun NTR is where I'm at, which isn't true NTR.

But all these "omg NTR!" threads and nobody having the same view of it for the most part just tells me how much the genre basically sucks. Actually making an NTR that is NTR or not some sub-genre of NTR that upsets the NTR fans is very tough to do.

They always seem to turn into happy NTR with cheating/voyeurism or a swinger party, or a "oh no my wife lefted me but I still love her and respect what she is doing because my small penis."
 

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You avoided answering my questions by answering the question(s) you wanted to answer.

It is my understanding that main difference between simple "cheating" / "infidelity" and netorare is the fact that the person who is cheated upon is aware of it and goes through the suffering. Is there is no pain, there is no netorare - so that goes back to my 2 questions:
If it's at the end, seems to me that since the son has no clue until discovered - wouldn't that make it more a "cheating" / "infidelity" story line than a true netorare storyline?
I mean, true netorare would have the son aware much earlier and having to suffer through it all, wouldn't he?
It meets the bare minimum to be considered netorare. Remember I gave him a more brutal example and he refused to even look at it. So I gave him one of the more tame ones I knew.
 

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I think the modest version of fun NTR is where I'm at, which isn't true NTR.

But all these "omg NTR!" threads and nobody having the same view of it for the most part just tells me how much the genre basically sucks. Actually making an NTR that is NTR or not some sub-genre of NTR that upsets the NTR fans is very tough to do.

They always seem to turn into happy NTR with cheating/voyeurism or a swinger party, or a "oh no my wife lefted me but I still love her and respect what she is doing because my small penis."
The omg ntr threads is why I, only a passer by in regard to ntr, have accrued a list of the most damaging ntr in existance...just to spring on them.
 
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It meets the bare minimum to be considered netorare. Remember I gave him a more brutal example and he refused to even look at it. So I gave him one of the more tame ones I knew.
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Based upon the bare minimum you have described and my understanding of netorare - I would say it does not meet the definition of netorare if the son has no clue until the end of the story. It does not explore the suffering of the son throughout the events. Instead it's simply a "cheating" / "infidelity" story where it is revealed in the climax / resolution stage.

Thanks.
 
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Based upon the bare minimum you have described and my understanding of netorare - I would say it does not meet the definition of netorare if the son has no clue until the end of the story. It does not explore the suffering of the son throughout the events. Instead it's simply a "cheating" / "infidelity" story where it is revealed in the climax / resolution stage.

Thanks.
I'm willing to concede that, but according to vndb, nhentai, and hanime, it's netorare. *shrug* It has about 30 seconds of true netorare by the definitions that you (and I have in the past) listed.
 

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Actually, remove vndb from my list. When I searched I didn't notice it pulled up a different title with the same word. So just hanime and nhentai.
 

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I guess the only thing we can really agree with about NTR, is that the only thing cucked is all the people we pissed off along the way. :ROFLMAO:
 

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I'm willing to concede that, but according to vndb, nhentai, and hanime, it's netorare. *shrug* It has about 30 seconds of true netorare by the definitions that you (and I have in the past) listed.
30 seconds at the end, based upon what you are saying. That does not meet a definition I have listed - in fact, I was quite clear in my definition and how this is excluded.

vndb has tags which are fan ascribed and voted upon - so popularity wins. Also, I do not find it on vndb - that doesn't mean it's not on there, but searching for "Hajimete no Hitozuma" reveals nothing. It do see the ntr tag on hanime and netorare tag on nhentai.

This is a lot of snowflake. By this very lax definition almost every "cheating" / "infidelity" where the cheated upon finds out in the end is netorare - and that doesn't delve into feelings at all, it's more like a jump-scare in a horror movie than actually creating an atmosphere of fear, suspense, helplessness, etc.

I'm not going to argue against it anymore and simply agree to disagree.
 
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30 seconds at the end, based upon what you are saying. That does not meet a definition I have listed - in fact, I was quite clear in my definition and how this is excluded.

vndb has tags which are fan ascribed and voted upon - so popularity wins. Also, I do not find it on vndb - that doesn't mean it's not on there, but searching for "Hajimete no Hitozuma" reveals nothing. It do see the ntr tag on hanime and netorare tag on nhentai.

This is a lot of snowflake. By this very lax definition almost every "cheating" / "infidelity" where the cheated upon finds out in the end is netorare - and that doesn't delve into feelings at all, it's more like a jump-scare in a horror movie than actually creating an atmosphere of fear, suspense, helplessness, etc.

I'm not going to argue against it anymore and simply agree to disagree.
We can definitely agree to disagree here. It meets the bare minimum, "enough" is not a criteria. That said, I will agree that it is the softest, tamest possible example I could have chosen...which is why I chose it in the first place.
 
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there’s so much cope in this thread, it’s actually crazy. what do you guys even get out of hating on ntr? i’ve never seen a single ntr fan (excluding netori/nts fans) hating on vanilla/harem games
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there’s so much cope in this thread, it’s actually crazy. what do you guys even get out of hating on ntr? i’ve never seen a single ntr fan (excluding netori/nts fans) hating on vanilla/harem games
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Not hating on anything. I Just like tame NTR and I'm not into anything dark where we have to enjoy the misery of the befallen mate of whoever ran off with the new love interest. :ROFLMAO:

But separately from that, totally unrelated to NTR, I don't much like harem games. I don't think collecting women like pokemon is my cup of tea. :coffee:
 

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hey who knew there were differences. I was thinking netorare is portrayal of cukkd things but theres more flavors it seems.
 
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there's only one real/true ntr, and that’s netorare. other sub-genres like netori, netorase, or bss aren’t real/true ntr. those who don’t know what ntr is always confuse it with netorase & netori
They literally do not know what NTR is.

Their idea of NTR is essentially a psychological thriller caused by cheating. Something so specific they couldn't find one example.