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so thats why they write "netorase" here:

It wasnt a translation error or made for fun, its another subgenre.

but pay attention, does it matters? No. because the hentai was good.
 

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Not NTR with a male protagonist but with a female protagonist, from your/her POV. Women wants a FMC to be taken by a male character so that's why love triangle stories are popular among women because they want to read about two handsome guys fight for FMC. I say this as one.
The biggest problem with NTR is that almost nobody understands NTR, even the people making content they think is NTR.

You can read an NTR tagged anything, consume it, and realize it's not NTR at all. This is pretty common and I blame how confusing NTR is as a topic to do right.

In most cases it's glorified cheating where the attached man is only vaguely kinda in love with the attached woman for stories sake, but as soon as she goes off the farm it turns into an exhibition sex thing around watching the woman fuck other one or more guys and the love side is basically some empty vague footnote between scenes of being a voyeur.
You 2 have a very wide and unusual definition of netorare tho. It's normally a type of corruption, so the attention is on the "stolen" (usually female) character's degradation, often to the point their personality is destroyed. The basic form is informed by kind of supercharged patriarchy, where it's "meaner man steals trophy woman from "weaker" man". This shifts a bit when the stealer is a futa or a lesbian but these are often men with tits. And they include sadistic elements in the antagonist, and often masochistic elements in the loser: many netorare fans don't self insert but it seems some still do. Look at the fan dispute if female protagonist NTR is NTR as an example. The anti side can't self insert there. Now maybe tanstaafl or desmosome could point us at exceptions where there is non-corruption or anti-corruption netorare. But the basic power fantasy is against the protagonist or the LI.

I mean there are many disputes about the meaning of NTR, among fans but between fans and haters too, but this is kinda a new one. Though I think anti-NTR "vanilla" fans' "any other man having sex with the male MC's woman is NTR" could be easily adapted to include your view. :unsure: But though there are totally similar themes with the vanilla power-fantasy love triangle erotica, true, the power fantasy like plays out in a very different way, and the audience's expectations are almost completely opposite.

Not 1 but 2 analogies: Is Narnia an isekai? Is creationism science? I think that's a clear no, 2 times.

Like, you do you, but I don't know if stories where a mind-erased female character is claimed by a slob, is gangraped, or has sex with dogs, is really the kinda stuff you're looking for.

Games have never and probably will never have "good ntr"...pleb.

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Which AI did you use for this? :unsure:

Go to nhentai, sort by netorare, then popularity, read for a while and weep at the ntr you find in games.
So NTR games NTR NTR fans with the quality of their NTR?

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Based upon the bare minimum you have described and my understanding of netorare - I would say it does not meet the definition of netorare if the son has no clue until the end of the story. It does not explore the suffering of the son throughout the events. Instead it's simply a "cheating" / "infidelity" story where it is revealed in the climax / resolution stage.

Thanks.
Here are 2 definitions I wrote for my glossary, the NTR one is in it but I kept the netorare one out:
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To directly answer your question, I don't think the position of the reveal in the story is very set. There's obvious from the start, a reveal midstory or the house of cards falling in at the end.
 

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They literally do not know what NTR is.

Their idea of NTR is essentially a psychological thriller caused by cheating. Something so specific they couldn't find one example.
Read my sig. That's the base requirement of what netorare, netorase, and netori are. Everything beyond my sig discussed here is about common themes and the traditional (I.E. Japanese) usage of the terms. If it doesn't fit your idea of what it is, tough. That's on you.
 

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So NTR games NTR NTR fans with the quality of their NTR?
Yes! I hate getting cucked by bad cuck games .
At the end of the day this is kind of my point. Because NTR as a concept is so tough, and most games/stories cross it into other things or massively water it down, I can only enjoy what other people have done (I'm not yet a creative :( ). Because NTR is so confusing, people making NTR stuff don't even understand it or adhere to it through the life of their creation.

I'm not even sure I would know a good NTR if it slapped me in the face, because I just don't have good NTR to gauge other NTR too. It's usually glorified cheating with voyeuristic appeal and zero real repercussions until maybe the very end where they live happily ever after or the FMC goes off to get gangbanged and pregnant. I'm not sure if a brief 1m exposition at the very end counts as good NTR.
 
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Go to nhentai, sort by netorare, then popularity, read for a while and weep at the ntr you find in games.
In my opinion, there are some comics, but NTR is probably still the heaviest in some games. I like NTR, but heavier stuff and humiliation stuff are not my thing, so comics tend to give good sexual content without going too hard on the psyche. IDK, I guess it's arguable what effects you or not, games are also more time-consuming so it also depends on how much time you invest in the content overall.

However, I generally consider NTR as the fast food of Japanese adult content. Too much stuff gets released, all the same tropes, and most of the time they are very dumb, but they give you multiple sexual content, and most of the content tends to focus on sexual stuff. Idk if there is Data or not, but I'll say most NTR comics have more sexual panels than the build-up panels compared to the Vanilla side.
 

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In my opinion, there are some comics, but NTR is probably still the heaviest in some games. I like NTR, but heavier stuff and humiliation stuff are not my thing, so comics tend to give good sexual content without going too hard on the psyche. IDK, I guess it's arguable what effects you or not, games are also more time-consuming so it also depends on how much time you invest in the content overall.

However, I generally consider NTR as the fast food of Japanese adult content. Too much stuff gets released, all the same tropes, and most of the time they are very dumb, but they give you multiple sexual content, and most of the content tends to focus on sexual stuff. Idk if there is Data or not, but I'll say most NTR comics have more sexual panels than the build-up panels compared to the Vanilla side.
Not even close. The doujins and hentai have some of the most twisted shit I've ever seen and I've been playing these games for years. I'd have to say that if you find games hitting harder it's because you just don't explore the darker side of the manga's and videos. Which is fine, to each their own.
 
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Read my sig. That's the base requirement of what netorare, netorase, and netori are. Everything beyond my sig discussed here is about common themes and the traditional (I.E. Japanese) usage of the terms. If it doesn't fit your idea of what it is, tough. That's on you.
Are you saying this to me? Cause that's what I said.
 

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Are you saying this to me? Cause that's what I said.
Because eastern netorare and western netorare are very different things. Japanese netorare is about destruction, western netorare is not netorare, it's just cucking. I'm fighting an uphill battle to get netorare back to being netorare again, not just cucking.
 

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At the end of the day this is kind of my point. Because NTR as a concept is so tough, and most games/stories cross it into other things or massively water it down, I can only enjoy what other people have done (I'm not yet a creative :( ). Because NTR is so confusing, people making NTR stuff don't even understand it or adhere to it through the life of their creation.

I'm not even sure I would know a good NTR if it slapped me in the face, because I just don't have good NTR to gauge other NTR too. It's usually glorified cheating with voyeuristic appeal and zero real repercussions until maybe the very end where they live happily ever after or the FMC goes off to get gangbanged and pregnant. I'm not sure if a brief 1m exposition at the very end counts as good NTR.
I don't really follow? What do you see as the pure stuff if most was watered down? Type C? More psychological? Maybe tanstaafl could point you to some extreme comics? It's even more confusing for me because earlier you used a very wide definition that most fans'd see as watered down.

Because eastern netorare and western netorare are very different things. Japanese netorare is about destruction, western netorare is not netorare, it's just cucking. I'm fighting an uphill battle to get netorare back to being netorare again, not just cucking.
You should try to recruit desmosome for the battle, you 2 sound exactly the same on this haha.
 
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I don't really follow? What do you see as the pure stuff if most was watered down? Type C? More psychological? Maybe tanstaafl could point you to some extreme comics? It's even more confusing for me because earlier you used a very wide definition that most fans'd see as watered down.
I don't think I really know. What I like is the happy go lucky, no doom and gloom, probably more generic cucking where the guy may be reluctant but it doesn't delve into anyone's psychological distress and depression.

I don't think I'd like anything extreme! I'm good with the happy kind. :giggle:

But I think overall the point I was making is that the whole netrorare thing is just very confusing, and the people who write or create games around it may not know how it's supposed to go. So you end up with fans of it getting misled or mistagging or whatever multitude of things and issues. No biggie for me- I don't mind any whatever anyone tries to do!
 
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I don't think I really know. What I like is the happy go lucky, no doom and gloom, probably more generic cucking where the guy may be reluctant but it doesn't delve into anyone's psychological distress and depression.

I don't think I'd like anything extreme! I'm good with the happy kind. :giggle:

But I think overall the point I was making is that the whole netrorare thing is just very confusing, and the people who write or create games around it may not know how it's supposed to go. So you end up with fans of it getting misled or mistagging or whatever multitude of things and issues. No biggie for me- I don't mind any whatever anyone tries to do!
This is bizarre coming from you. I flat out gave you several definitions of NTR (Including the japanese one) and you all but directly went
NUH UH.

So I'm not sure why you're referring to other people not knowing how it's supposed to go.

As for my own opinion, honestly it's dead simple.

NTR is the fetishization of failure, often through the act of cheating but not always. Once you know that definition, it all makes sense.

Like I said before, it's why for example a Mother LI having sex with her husband before her route wouldn't be true ntr. It's not designed to fetishize jealousy.

It's why those romance books don't count, They are not designed to be NTR.
 

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This is bizarre coming from you. I flat out gave you several definitions of NTR (Including the japanese one) and you all but directly went
NUH UH.

So I'm not sure why you're referring to other people not knowing how it's supposed to go.

As for my own opinion, honestly it's dead simple.

NTR is the fetishization of failure, often through the act of cheating but not always. Once you know that definition, it all makes sense.

Like I said before, it's why for example a Mother LI having sex with her husband before her route wouldn't be true ntr. It's not designed to fetishize jealousy.

It's why those romance books don't count, They are not designed to be NTR.
Not sure how much more clear I can be.

I guess you can go look at the games here tagged "netorare" and list all the ones you wouldn't consider to actually be netorare.

For every game you find that you don't consider "netorare", that would be one more point for me. The diverse aspects of the tag, and the people trying to make them, don't always coincide. It's a tough genre that people making the games/stories/etc, don't always understand but try to do it anyway.
 

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Take for example what I think is the most popular up and comer, "Netorase Phone".

This is supposed to be where the guy involved wants it to happen.

And to the author's credit, it started out that way.

Then over time he started getting action. Then he started netoraring his girlfriend. Then it suddenly became a group of sexaholics having sex with each other and strangers and egging each other all on while trying to drag people into the sex party who are just friends of friends or random passer-by-ers.

It is basically more like some sort of open sex swinger/let's all just fuck everything together party that feels like it started off kind of good, but went so far off course I'm not sure what genre it is anymore except maybe loosely "swingers" with some weird aspect of "harem" collecting.

Do you consider swingers netorare? Do you consider Netorase Phone as NTR still? Lemme know!

Because I'll just say again- the people making this stuff have a hard time staying on track with it and it loses the NTR whatever somewhere along the way, if it ever had it.
 
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Every time you speak, you basically end up saying "The kind of NTR I like is not NTR."

You can like what you like, but for the love of god, It's not NTR. If it doesn't fit the description, it's not that.

And again, you're implying the people making it don't know what they're doing, when you clearly don't know what you're looking for.

It's like going into an italian restaurant, Complaining they don't sell true pasta, and then when asked about what you consider Pasta, it's fucking pizza.

At this point, it's glaring obvious you don't like NTR.

I could bring up a 100 Classic NTRs (Weird as that is to say.) and it's very likely You would literally not like 1 of them.

You don't like it. You clearly don't like it.
 

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>vanilla fans giving lectures on what makes an ntr game a good ntr game
i can't believe this thread is still alive. if only there were netori & nts tags too, then there wouldn't have been any debate on this topic
 

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I don't think I really know. What I like is the happy go lucky, no doom and gloom, probably more generic cucking where the guy may be reluctant but it doesn't delve into anyone's psychological distress and depression.

I don't think I'd like anything extreme! I'm good with the happy kind. :giggle:

But I think overall the point I was making is that the whole netrorare thing is just very confusing, and the people who write or create games around it may not know how it's supposed to go. So you end up with fans of it getting misled or mistagging or whatever multitude of things and issues. No biggie for me- I don't mind any whatever anyone tries to do!
Okay, stay the hell away from type C then. :LOL: What you're looking for is some kind of soft . That's why your mention about games being too watered down was kinda confusing.

I think the writers have a pretty good idea what the genre is tho, and the way it goes is actually pretty formulaic as it's an arc-based corruption genre. What I think tanstaafl meant with VN and games being softer than the comics is probably about the tone or psychological impact. A lot of the Japanese games are cashgrabs, and the western adult game scene is mostly solo devs and small teams.

Anyway, the love triangle stuff you mentioned earlier could work as a premiss, a bit like the "netorase gone netorare" but toned down, but NTR is usually hard anti-female power fantasy even if the antagonist is female. The typical love triangle erotica that works as a female power fantasy and netorare are pretty much entirely separate as genres.

Take for example what I think is the most popular up and comer, "Netorase Phone".

This is supposed to be where the guy involved wants it to happen.

And to the author's credit, it started out that way.

Then over time he started getting action. Then he started netoraring his girlfriend. Then it suddenly became a group of sexaholics having sex with each other and strangers and egging each other all on while trying to drag people into the sex party who are just friends of friends or random passer-by-ers.

It is basically more like some sort of open sex swinger/let's all just fuck everything together party that feels like it started off kind of good, but went so far off course I'm not sure what genre it is anymore except maybe loosely "swingers" with some weird aspect of "harem" collecting.

Do you consider swingers netorare? Do you consider Netorase Phone as NTR still? Lemme know!

Because I'll just say again- the people making this stuff have a hard time staying on track with it and it loses the NTR whatever somewhere along the way, if it ever had it.
That's netorase tho, not netorare. Some people use NTR as a more general term that include netorare, netori and netorase, many others like me only use it for netorare. For a quick idea about the meanings see tanstaafl's signature:
Easy reference:
  • Netorare: Unwilling cuck
  • Netorase: Willing cuck
  • Netori: MC does the cucking
The difference is about the eventual attitude of the cuck (using this for the role) and who the LI ends up with. In netorase at the end the LI stays with the cuck who's embraced the sharing, and it can be both masochistic (focus on LI's sex with others) or a power fantasy (swinging, poly, pimping) for the cuck. There are stories where initial netorase or swinging or sharing turns into netorare. Netorase fans really hate that "netorase gone netorare" unless they're into netorare too.

Every time you speak, you basically end up saying "The kind of NTR I like is not NTR."

You can like what you like, but for the love of god, It's not NTR. If it doesn't fit the description, it's not that.

And again, you're implying the people making it don't know what they're doing, when you clearly don't know what you're looking for.

It's like going into an italian restaurant, Complaining they don't sell true pasta, and then when asked about what you consider Pasta, it's fucking pizza.

At this point, it's glaring obvious you don't like NTR.

I could bring up a 100 Classic NTRs (Weird as that is to say.) and it's very likely You would literally not like 1 of them.

You don't like it. You clearly don't like it.
I understand why the discussion may've been frustrating for you, but I don't think this is a very effective way to communicate about the genre differences and likely to raise a more defensive reply.

Kinda curious tho, what are the genres or kinks you mostly like?

>vanilla fans giving lectures on what makes an ntr game a good ntr game
i can't believe this thread is still alive. if only there were netori & nts tags too, then there wouldn't have been any debate on this topic
Weren't you supposed to take a break from the site? Anyway, care identifying the vanilla fans? Aren't you a vanilla fan now, or was that a 2-day thing last week?
 

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Okay, stay the hell away from type C then. :LOL: What you're looking for is some kind of soft . That's why your mention about games being too watered down was kinda confusing.

I think the writers have a pretty good idea what the genre is tho, and the way it goes is actually pretty formulaic as it's an arc-based corruption genre. What I think tanstaafl meant with VN and games being softer than the comics is probably about the tone or psychological impact. A lot of the Japanese games are cashgrabs, and the western adult game scene is mostly solo devs and small teams.

Anyway, the love triangle stuff you mentioned earlier could work as a premiss, a bit like the "netorase gone netorare" but toned down, but NTR is usually hard anti-female power fantasy even if the antagonist is female. The typical love triangle erotica that works as a female power fantasy and netorare are pretty much entirely separate as genres.


That's netorase tho, not netorare. Some people use NTR as a more general term that include netorare, netori and netorase, many others like me only use it for netorare. For a quick idea about the meanings see tanstaafl's signature:


The difference is about the eventual attitude of the cuck (using this for the role) and who the LI ends up with. In netorase at the end the LI stays with the cuck who's embraced the sharing, and it can be both masochistic (focus on LI's sex with others) or a power fantasy (swinging, poly, pimping) for the cuck. There are stories where initial netorase or swinging or sharing turns into netorare. Netorase fans really hate that "netorase gone netorare" unless they're into netorare too.


I understand why the discussion may've been frustrating for you, but I don't think this is a very effective way to communicate about the genre differences and likely to raise a more defensive reply.

Kinda curious tho, what are the genres or kinks you mostly like?


Weren't you supposed to take a break from the site? Anyway, care identifying the vanilla fans? Aren't you a vanilla fan now, or was that a 2-day thing last week?
I feel like I've not done good or explained clearly, so I will just bow out and know that you are right and I am wrong. I apologize to everyone who tried to engage me and got frustrated. I will do better in the next NTR thread I promise! :geek:
 
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I feel like I've not done good or explained clearly, so I will just bow out and know that you are right and I am wrong. I apologize to everyone who tried to engage me and got frustrated. I will do better in the next NTR thread I promise! :geek:
No hard feelings
I understand why the discussion may've been frustrating for you, but I don't think this is a very effective way to communicate about the genre differences and likely to raise a more defensive reply.
I get it, but I tried to be more or less civil, but the more it seemed they didn't understand what I meant, the more rude and direct I get. After all, I did give them multiple Definitions proving their point wrong.

Ironically, all they did my og point was right. NTR's audience is mostly made up of men. It's glaringly obvious.

Kinda curious tho, what are the genres or kinks you mostly like?
Funnily enough, I don't even like NTR. It comes into direct conflict with my primary fetish, femdom, since NTR usually ends up being extreme Maledom.

I mostly stick with Vanilla harem games.