We're good. My default policy is to go passive-agressive.
As for NTR, to me it is a woman's fantasy. You're supposed to self-insert as the woman when reading NTR. You're cheating on your partner and it's not your fault because this other guy is just better. This mindset I actually realized when I read a reverse ntr work, or in sadpanda it is tagged as male:netorare. I recommend reading this from Zonda to understand what I mean.
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it has the same beat as normal NTR but with the gender reversed.
And then seeing the woman fell to pleasure, breaking her moral and mental chain for her own selfishness is just hot. A reserved and shy girl going behind her partner's back just to be a lewd slut is just *chef kiss*. I guess I just like the corruption aspect of NTR more than the guilty pleasure of the cuck or superiority complex of stealing someone's wife/gf.