And on queue we have someone prove my point but sure ill play along because where Vanilla is concerned you KNOW it can and will be avoidable. NTR is literally the only tag where people want to have their cake and eat it too. Other fetishes and kinks they're upfront about it. Scat? oh its Avoidable, Rape? yeah thats Avoidable, Futa/Trans? sorry bud not this game its unavoidable, understandable have a nice day. Only NTR harp on like they're the ones being oppressed. You can't even search to find if NTR is avoidable without finding some NTR Fan giving passive aggressive remarks literally you cannot even do it in a search check anymore. Even though NTR itself is divided into so many subsections its not even funny.
Netorare, Netori, Netorase oh and lets not even get into the different points of view such as type B or C. But no people can't even ask for clarification without being given false information. People have learn to these termniology and still can't get a correct answer.
You must have missed the whole Futa/Trans debate in the new tags page. They have a whole deal about if its real fut or dickman or does a magic dick count, Or futa not being the same as trans. ect. lol.
Things like anal, creampie, and the like are easy because there is no debate to be had. It's not really a game-defining fetish just one you find in the game.
But devs just need to be upfront about what's in the game and not beat around the bush because they are scared they might lose a player. I think its better to not have someone play the game then be mad that they did. If your game has NTR, explain the gameplay of that, what kind of NTR. Is it incest? Then what kind of incest, mom/son, boy/cousin, brother/sister ect. Just make a spoiler section and explain how you have the story and gameplay set up.