Kind of why i wasnt too into it, except for one or two characters that have a pre-programmed scenario scripted, but basically if i have to direct everything and make the "ntr" come to life then i feel like i might as well just close my eyes and start imagining whatever kinky shit gets me off the most. Its the opposite of most games that have all these pre-programmed scenes and scenarios to go down into, which may or may not be up to your tastes but still, to me its just hotter.
Unfortunately, since it isn't in the bot's permanent memory, you might have to subtly remind it every few thousand tokens you go without referencing cheating, unless the service you're using lets you put stuff in memory.
i tried putting it in my user persona (yodayo has it, i dont know if other sites do), which is automatically taken in by the bots. and immediately when I start talking to a new character about books and novels, she says she's interested in genre of infidelity and things against social norms (and so we tried it out afterwards). so those things can make topics kick in by itself unexpectedly. who knows what other approaches other bots will do to make the topic manifest in the story, without even you mentioning it.
also I feel like it will be easier to lead them to make their own NTR if before giving them autonomy in narration, they:
- get aroused first, where even the most guarded characters will be more open
- implicitly giving consent (e.g. "i'm proud to be your boyfriend so i want to show you off to the world", "i love you no matter what you do", even non-spoken like *I continue peeking through the doorway*)
basically soften then up
There's also an alternative to subtle hinting, which is Out Of Character commands. Basically this is ordering the bot to do something, but in a way the bot won't directly respond to in-character. The syntax I'm familiar with is ((OOC:)).
i tried using this on yodayo with not much luck. either
(ooc: <text>) or just
(<text>). i found more success suggesting meta stuff with the asterisks
*<text>*. ymmv
edit: f*k this character i'm talking to right now, I just came, and she's like
Adeline giggled softly, amused by <name>'s reaction. "And that's exactly what makes it so exciting," she whispered in his ear. "Knowing that someone else is getting to enjoy all these parts of me that are usually reserved just for you." She could tell how much it turned him on and loved being able to push those buttons within him.