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Enlight432

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hi friends
a psychological incident related to the NTR genre has happened to me, which I want to share with you, so that i hope with your comments I can achieve my desire.

Three months ago, I was in love with NTR to such an extent that I did not go to the vanilla side at all. I used to enjoy a lot even from the smallest dialogue of NTR.
One day I entered the manga and manhwa industry for the first time and I read NTR manga and manhwa for two months, but some of the NTRs in them were very cruel. I was a little traumatized, but I continued! But two months later, I completely removed manga and manhwa from my life and returned to Adult Game, which is much better than both of them
but a strange thing happened :
Now I enjoy romance a lot in Adult Game! It wasn't like that before, it's great that I enjoy romance a lot, but the problem is that now I can't enjoy a lot of NTR!!! The games that used to give me great pleasure, now I'm afraid of them! And this has made me angry, I want to be like before, I don't want to lose that strong pleasure of the past
I didn't sympathize with MC much before,But after the experience of several manga and manhwa that contained Cruel NTR ( It had nothing to do with sexual pleasure, it focused on traumatizing the experiencer ! ) it made me much more interested in MCs! I mean, I self-insert a lot more than before, that's the reason why I enjoy romance a lot now, but this strong self-inserting made me feel more upset instead of enjoying a lot of NTR games! I know that the pleasure of NTR is based on the feelings of jealousy and anxiety and tension and similar, but these feelings used to be very sweet ! That is, the output was very enjoyable, but now it is heartbroken !

How do you think I can go back to the previous state?
With what angle of view or way of thinking or method of playing NTR games should I play so that I don't experience that heart broken feeling?
I am looking forward to your answers, thanks
 

Sieglinnde

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hi friends
a psychological incident related to the NTR genre has happened to me, which I want to share with you, so that i hope with your comments I can achieve my desire.

Three months ago, I was in love with NTR to such an extent that I did not go to the vanilla side at all. I used to enjoy a lot even from the smallest dialogue of NTR.
One day I entered the manga and manhwa industry for the first time and I read NTR manga and manhwa for two months, but some of the NTRs in them were very cruel. I was a little traumatized, but I continued! But two months later, I completely removed manga and manhwa from my life and returned to Adult Game, which is much better than both of them
but a strange thing happened :
Now I enjoy romance a lot in Adult Game! It wasn't like that before, it's great that I enjoy romance a lot, but the problem is that now I can't enjoy a lot of NTR!!! The games that used to give me great pleasure, now I'm afraid of them! And this has made me angry, I want to be like before, I don't want to lose that strong pleasure of the past
I didn't sympathize with MC much before,But after the experience of several manga and manhwa that contained Cruel NTR ( It had nothing to do with sexual pleasure, it focused on traumatizing the experiencer ! ) it made me much more interested in MCs! I mean, I self-insert a lot more than before, that's the reason why I enjoy romance a lot now, but this strong self-inserting made me feel more upset instead of enjoying a lot of NTR games! I know that the pleasure of NTR is based on the feelings of jealousy and anxiety and tension and similar, but these feelings used to be very sweet ! That is, the output was very enjoyable, but now it is heartbroken !

How do you think I can go back to the previous state?
With what angle of view or way of thinking or method of playing NTR games should I play so that I don't experience that heart broken feeling?
I am looking forward to your answers, thanks
Maybe you could start over and start testing netorase games? Before, when I just started, I started with Netorase games, without realizing that those started with netorase but ended in netorare (like mayumi's cuckolding report for example) and then little by little I started to like netorare... And I finished liking netorare when I ran out of Netorase games to play... You know? That's when I had to expand my horizons and try full NTR games, and that's what I enjoy the most nowadays...
 
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cIoseopenbrutal

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How do you think I can go back to the previous state?
With what angle of view or way of thinking or method of playing NTR games should I play so that I don't experience that heart broken feeling?
The answer is in your comment. Just dont self-insert , unless you're a masochist. Just have a sprinkle of empathy.

I never had a problem on my side. I can both enjoy vanilla , corruption and ntr games at the same time. I think because I dont focus on any of them too much and just like eating food, it needs balance. But that's just my take on the matter.

Or you can just simply accept the fact that ntr isnt your jam anymore, which is totally ok. Better than forcing yourself to like it again.
 

LordFrz

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hi friends
a psychological incident related to the NTR genre has happened to me, which I want to share with you, so that i hope with your comments I can achieve my desire.

Three months ago, I was in love with NTR to such an extent that I did not go to the vanilla side at all. I used to enjoy a lot even from the smallest dialogue of NTR.
One day I entered the manga and manhwa industry for the first time and I read NTR manga and manhwa for two months, but some of the NTRs in them were very cruel. I was a little traumatized, but I continued! But two months later, I completely removed manga and manhwa from my life and returned to Adult Game, which is much better than both of them
but a strange thing happened :
Now I enjoy romance a lot in Adult Game! It wasn't like that before, it's great that I enjoy romance a lot, but the problem is that now I can't enjoy a lot of NTR!!! The games that used to give me great pleasure, now I'm afraid of them! And this has made me angry, I want to be like before, I don't want to lose that strong pleasure of the past
I didn't sympathize with MC much before,But after the experience of several manga and manhwa that contained Cruel NTR ( It had nothing to do with sexual pleasure, it focused on traumatizing the experiencer ! ) it made me much more interested in MCs! I mean, I self-insert a lot more than before, that's the reason why I enjoy romance a lot now, but this strong self-inserting made me feel more upset instead of enjoying a lot of NTR games! I know that the pleasure of NTR is based on the feelings of jealousy and anxiety and tension and similar, but these feelings used to be very sweet ! That is, the output was very enjoyable, but now it is heartbroken !

How do you think I can go back to the previous state?
With what angle of view or way of thinking or method of playing NTR games should I play so that I don't experience that heart broken feeling?
I am looking forward to your answers, thanks
Tastes change, just enjoy what you enjoy. Personally, I love NTR in porn, but I'm not playing porn for a long story. When it comes to non porn stuff that I want to get invested in, I want happy fairy tale endings. I love shojo manga and anime. I want the characters I ship to have a happy story.

But in porn I want the complete opposite since I'm not super invested in the characters.
 

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Tastes change, just enjoy what you enjoy. Personally, I love NTR in porn, but I'm not playing porn for a long story. When it comes to non porn stuff that I want to get invested in, I want happy fairy tale endings. I love shojo manga and anime. I want the characters I ship to have a happy story.

But in porn I want the complete opposite since I'm not super invested in the characters.
Took the words out of my mouth. Almost lost my marbles when Zeb Wells cucked Peter with Paul. Now he's cucking Deadpool in the new movie, too.

I swear that guy has a cuck fetish :KEK:
 

Enlight432

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Maybe you could start over and start testing netorase games? Before, when I just started, I started with Netorase games, without realizing that those started with netorase but ended in netorare (like mayumi's cuckolding report for example) and then little by little I started to like netorare... And I finished liking netorare when I ran out of Netorase games to play... You know? That's when I had to expand my horizons and try full NTR games, and that's what I enjoy the most nowadays...
Now because I enjoy romance, I also enjoy NTS because part of NTS is strong romance (In the great games of the NTS genre)
But again, when I see a series of NTR dialogues in an NTS game that fmc says just for teasing the MC, it's not pleasant for me ! I don't like her saying them!
Maybe, as melantha and blablablagivemethemoney pointed out, I need time, that is, the memory of those mangas and manhwas is still in my mind. But when I think about those mangas and manhwas, I don't feel sad at all, I mean, I resolved it quickly in my mind and didn't let them stay in my mind for long.

Maybe it's a self-inserting problem! :unsure: Before, I was self-inserting with mc just for fun, now it's like I'm him ! and I want all the LIs to be mine!
 

Enlight432

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The answer is in your comment. Just dont self-insert , unless you're a masochist. Just have a sprinkle of empathy.
When I think about the way of bridging the past and now, I believe your words more, it means that I have a self-inserting problem, before I didn't experience any negative emotions from mc, as if mc was not important to me at all. In fact, I sympathized with MC only to the extent that it was related to NTR's pleasure

I never had a problem on my side. I can both enjoy vanilla , corruption and ntr games at the same time. I think because I dont focus on any of them too much and just like eating food, it needs balance. But that's just my take on the matter.
I also agree with this statement, I think variety is necessary, that is, when we always focus only on one genre, it becomes less enjoyable, but when we sometimes experience a little bit of other genres, the enjoyment of our favorite genre is always preserved

Or you can just simply accept the fact that ntr isnt your jam anymore, which is totally ok. Better than forcing yourself to like it again.
Oh no, I can never accept this, that is, I will never let go of NTR :LOL:, the pleasure I experienced from NTR was much more than the best movie, serial, and normal game of my life
 
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Enlight432

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Tastes change, just enjoy what you enjoy. Personally, I love NTR in porn, but I'm not playing porn for a long story. When it comes to non porn stuff that I want to get invested in, I want happy fairy tale endings. I love shojo manga and anime. I want the characters I ship to have a happy story.

But in porn I want the complete opposite since I'm not super invested in the characters.
We have almost the same taste, I mean, if I go back to the world of manga and manhwa,I only read vanilla stories, because I think the purpose of NTR in manga and manhwa is not sexual pleasure, the purpose is only to create a big tragedy, for example, the scene The rape of Casca in Barzak, where there was berserk scene, he went crazy and cut his own hand with his mouth to stop his best friend from raping the love of his life! And in the end it was unsuccessful and Casca suffered a severe traumatization to the extent that she could not remember Berzerk! fuck !
 
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Sieglinnde

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Now because I enjoy romance, I also enjoy NTS because part of NTS is strong romance (In the great games of the NTS genre)
But again, when I see a series of NTR dialogues in an NTS game that fmc says just for teasing the MC, it's not pleasant for me ! I don't like her saying them!
Maybe, as melantha and blablablagivemethemoney pointed out, I need time, that is, the memory of those mangas and manhwas is still in my mind. But when I think about those mangas and manhwas, I don't feel sad at all, I mean, I resolved it quickly in my mind and didn't let them stay in my mind for long.

Maybe it's a self-inserting problem! :unsure: Before, I was self-inserting with mc just for fun, now it's like I'm him ! and I want all the LIs to be mine!
I don't personally think self-inserting is bad... If that's what makes you enjoy the story more... As you say, this isn't the case since it makes you suffer
 

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hi friends
a psychological incident related to the NTR genre has happened to me, which I want to share with you, so that i hope with your comments I can achieve my desire.

Three months ago, I was in love with NTR to such an extent that I did not go to the vanilla side at all. I used to enjoy a lot even from the smallest dialogue of NTR.
One day I entered the manga and manhwa industry for the first time and I read NTR manga and manhwa for two months, but some of the NTRs in them were very cruel. I was a little traumatized, but I continued! But two months later, I completely removed manga and manhwa from my life and returned to Adult Game, which is much better than both of them
but a strange thing happened :
Now I enjoy romance a lot in Adult Game! It wasn't like that before, it's great that I enjoy romance a lot, but the problem is that now I can't enjoy a lot of NTR!!! The games that used to give me great pleasure, now I'm afraid of them! And this has made me angry, I want to be like before, I don't want to lose that strong pleasure of the past
I didn't sympathize with MC much before,But after the experience of several manga and manhwa that contained Cruel NTR ( It had nothing to do with sexual pleasure, it focused on traumatizing the experiencer ! ) it made me much more interested in MCs! I mean, I self-insert a lot more than before, that's the reason why I enjoy romance a lot now, but this strong self-inserting made me feel more upset instead of enjoying a lot of NTR games! I know that the pleasure of NTR is based on the feelings of jealousy and anxiety and tension and similar, but these feelings used to be very sweet ! That is, the output was very enjoyable, but now it is heartbroken !

How do you think I can go back to the previous state?
With what angle of view or way of thinking or method of playing NTR games should I play so that I don't experience that heart broken feeling?
I am looking forward to your answers, thanks
I enjoy NTR as porn only. I hate NTR in other media.

What was your reason for liking NTR in the first place? For me, I like the depiction of intense rough sex that is so pleasurable that it causes the female main character to abandon and betray their lover.
 

Enlight432

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I enjoy NTR as porn only. I hate NTR in other media.

What was your reason for liking NTR in the first place? For me, I like the depiction of intense rough sex that is so pleasurable that it causes the female main character to abandon and betray their lover.
Reasons :
1: Increasing relationship tension
2: Being closer to reality compared to vanilla games
3: Bull rough sex with LI
4: More creativity compared to 99.9% of vanilla games
Etc
 
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Kulman

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hi friends
a psychological incident related to the NTR genre has happened to me, which I want to share with you, so that i hope with your comments I can achieve my desire.

Three months ago, I was in love with NTR to such an extent that I did not go to the vanilla side at all. I used to enjoy a lot even from the smallest dialogue of NTR.
One day I entered the manga and manhwa industry for the first time and I read NTR manga and manhwa for two months, but some of the NTRs in them were very cruel. I was a little traumatized, but I continued! But two months later, I completely removed manga and manhwa from my life and returned to Adult Game, which is much better than both of them
but a strange thing happened :
Now I enjoy romance a lot in Adult Game! It wasn't like that before, it's great that I enjoy romance a lot, but the problem is that now I can't enjoy a lot of NTR!!! The games that used to give me great pleasure, now I'm afraid of them! And this has made me angry, I want to be like before, I don't want to lose that strong pleasure of the past
I didn't sympathize with MC much before,But after the experience of several manga and manhwa that contained Cruel NTR ( It had nothing to do with sexual pleasure, it focused on traumatizing the experiencer ! ) it made me much more interested in MCs! I mean, I self-insert a lot more than before, that's the reason why I enjoy romance a lot now, but this strong self-inserting made me feel more upset instead of enjoying a lot of NTR games! I know that the pleasure of NTR is based on the feelings of jealousy and anxiety and tension and similar, but these feelings used to be very sweet ! That is, the output was very enjoyable, but now it is heartbroken !

How do you think I can go back to the previous state?
With what angle of view or way of thinking or method of playing NTR games should I play so that I don't experience that heart broken feeling?
I am looking forward to your answers, thanks
Huh, I actually went through the complete opposite of that. Guess my mind just adapted to the ntr and became pretty stone cold to any of it.

Kinda like if you keep getting cut, the area will just harden, making further cuts much more difficult.. I mainly just watch ntr for the corruption now, which I thankfully still enjoy. No more of that ntr angst and fire sadly. Guess doesnt help that the ntr game writing quality has been going down, rather than up. Especially in the VN genre, where good writing studios like Elf died, and crap factories like Atelier sakura are the ones to survive.
 
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