Ah okay good, I misunderstood what you meant by "stop ntr from happening". Because usually its a very overt: WARNING WARNING. So it kinda kills the purpose.
I guess I just like being taken for a ride, rather than having actual choice thats just clicking yes or no (like "a weird guy approaches the girl, do you stop him" - like bruh of course I know where that leads, not stopping him makes this a netorase, not a netorare.)
I want me being ass at the mechanics part of the game to naturally lead to ntr. Perhaps having options to have hard difficulty so I dont have to pretend to be really bad.
Yea, I think when most people ask for "is NTR avoidable?". They are looking to avoid it by playing well. Not by a message box that says, "your girl is being molested, do you stop it?"
Personally, I dont even want that, because I dont want to have to pay attention to teh mechanics. I want those choices, but only in a way to throw me off, and sucker punch me with the NTR.
Something like how in Lean 2 you are expecting one thing, only to get stabbed in the back by somthing unexpected. The mechanics should not be hard, just there to distract the player to catch them off guard later.
Few games do it well. You almost always end up having to choose the choices you know will lead to NTR, or just finishing the game in the non NTR route :/ Which has like 2 scenes, so even people wanting no NTR are still pissed, lol.