anyone can explain me why NTR is so demanded and present nowadays, i don't understand why you can jack off thinkink about the love of your life being stolen by other dude, it's like masochism or something?
Yes, it can be seen as a psychological deviation from the norm, but any fetish, to some extent, goes beyond it - pushing a person to explore the taboo sides of desire. The NTR genre is highly diverse - it’s impossible to explain all of its admirers with a single motive, as their emotional responses and inner drives differ greatly.
What unites them is a particular relationship with jealousy, control, and dependency. For some, NTR becomes a way to make peace with the anxiety of infidelity by turning pain into part of the scenario, it stops being a threat. Others seek emotional intensity, reliving drama through fantasies of loss and finding a powerful resonance in it. A third group prefers the role of an observer - they are drawn to the imagined process of submission and the release from responsibility.
Thus, NTR is not merely about betrayal, but about a way of experiencing the conflict between pain, desire, and control, where humiliation becomes a form of emotional catharsis.