I'm still trying to figure out this whole wives thing and who is really the main wife since we can have four wives. It's seem that Martha is the main wife so that we can become emperor but if Elena makes us a hero then that won't matter any more. Catalana doesn't offer much since everyone is trying to get you to meet the archmage. The Neko Princess is nothing more then a throw away princess but maybe if you hold out for one the other princess who has more power then it make more sense. Not that it matters since The Neko Princess said she would still bed you even if you married one of her other sisters. I'm just worried that we might get other choices later in the game for wifes and can't since earlier choices would lock us out. But if we make our own kingdom and rules by being Elena's hero then none of this really matters. We need more info about how many potential wives there are in the game.