Also, funny enough.
Not sure where you got the update, but I always have on my sites said where to start the updates because of the coding so people DONT NEED TO START their game from like new game or something. Most of the time it was/it is a certain menu but this update it was a few scenes back so you know, thats something to consider too to not have a bugged save.
But anyway, if you clicked on her and then click on SIT WITH her (not just looking at it) and you did not get the next menu with options, then send the save.