I don't care for the majority minority bullshit.
This is not a democracy this is a creative production by an author that wants to do something. What is evident to me is that there is enough space for both crowds, the one that want an oversized dick and the one that want a more regular one. As public the only thing we can do is rejoice for the coming of a new player in the arena. The more there is the more will come. I would much rather celebrate a game that is not exactly for me than argue with others about something I have no control over. That's mental masturbation.
If you think you're in the majority, what ever that means, in your niche and that it allows you to berate others because of it, you are no better. Why not try to pull rather than push back?
I'll have to remind people for the Nth time the dev did not reduce the size to please anyone but themselves, they needed to do it to have an easier time working and by doing that they did not alter their vision for what they wanted to do, it's still there what they did is compromise which is not the same thing. You can bet your ass that if the dev could do with the current size they would do it in a heart beat and that bigger dicks are to come once their honed their skill. And arguing about what they should or should not do is pointless. Their work, their vision, their choice and their rule.
While there is merit within downsizing things in order to avoid texture issues/clipping/etc and everything that goes into it, the vast majority of devs will just iterate on it until they get it to where they want it rather than compromising on something.
Devs rarely ever compromise on anything unless it's something that will effect the popularity of the game, and as you said they're still likely following their vision, but I'd be cautious against thinking that they
only made this decision due to the technical aspect.
There have been plenty of games before this that have had oversized dongs so the dev could've easily just solicited advice from other developers on the technical aspects if they wanted to keep the dongsize.
This is also just a demo, so the dev would've had the time to iterate on making the size work if they wanted to, as it is not like it was in between a 0.1 and 0.2 update or something along those lines.
I have no horse in the race, but it's just silly to see camp A going "THE FUTAS DICK IS TOO SMALL, ANYONE WHO SAYS OTHERWISE IS A RUBE" and camp B going "THE FUTAS DICK IS TOO BIG, SIZE KINKS GTFO". Of course, one of them is inevitably going to be a majority and it seems clear which one it ended up being, but it's idiotic to take a stance as if the game somehow belongs to their kink when it is, as you said, the devs work/vision/choice and rule. That's what mainly annoys me with these arguments.
Personally, I could do without the MC being 45% penis to bodyweight ratio, but I also don't really care because if it gets too egregious, I'll just not play it. It really is as simple as that, and I think more people should view it from that perspective rather than becoming tribalistic about it.