They definitely work very slow, or probably only when set off by someone. Also thought I post two of the direct responses we saw from the team so far, gives some insight on what "should" be possible.
That is somewhat enlightening, I was worried about the "step" problem. I kinda get it though, how many predatory relationships are carried out by step parents in the real world. That said, they say "if there is an option" implying they'd have to know about it, and as I just said in another post, there's no way they're actually testing the content. Does anyone know of an instance where a provider who has not till now been a target, and who was targeted in spite of not having their content advertised as providing the violating taboos?
As to the message to Faerin, from my perspective that seems incredibly theoretical. The things they're talking about would have to come to their attention in the first place. To put it quite simply, Patreon isn't paying a moderator to follow your footprint around the internet to see what you're advertising on other sites. The entire premise of that response requires that a third party inform them of the violation. Or for the provider to casually provide an outside link on their patreon that they could follow. Again, very unlikely.
Obviously continuing to fund taboo content on Patreon is going to be a risk, but I'd say its more than possible to avoid scrutiny. So long as the words "family", "mom/mother", "dad/father", "brother", "sister", "cousin", "aunt", and "uncle" don't appear anywhere on your game's description, title, or the patreon page itself, I see no way they'll find out about incest. So long as "animal" and "bestiality" don't show, they shouldn't find those kinks. So long as "rape" "assault" etc don't show they shouldn't find those kinks.
And that won't really stop us from advertising either. Be creative with your description. For instance:
"You play the role of an older man, one day he receives a knock on his door. Opening it he reveals a beautiful young blonde. He invites her in and a new romance blossoms. Experience a new world as you explore your feelings for this girl, meet her friends, discover the feelings of a co-worker. Careful though, you and this young blonde only have 2 weeks. Make choices, forge a strong relationship or maybe an open one?"
That could be the description for Dating My Daughter, and its a game I'd play in a heartbeat. Sure, you can't call it Dating My Daughter anymore, but while that title tells the audience exactly what they're getting, it isn't exactly the most creative thing ever. Most titles aren't as on the nose and could easily be changed, if necessary. For instance, Daughter for Desert could easily be swapped from daughter to the daughters name (I've forgotten it, but I really like this project so far). Similarly the description could be about the two young college girls you work with, maybe mention the daughter as roomate, and viola. Your game is sanitised for patreon but the game itself has the incest option. Maybe even make it a prompt, asking "is ____ your daughter or your roomate?" before you even choose your own name. That should keep your game from being reported by the faint of heart.
It's sad that we have to hide, but until we have our own paypalesque payment method, it seems we have no choice.