Thanks, that did it. I had to give her a bunch of help/jewelry after I tried the first time.Did you have the option to kiss her?
You swim with her a 2/3 times and don't kiss her the first time you can.
Then kiss her.
Talk to her the next day. She is confused and MC think: "what can I do?"
She may run away a few times when you give her gifts, but the Special Pastry option will appear if you have some with you.
Maybe tried to kiss her too soon ?