1, supports my original position that she didn't have a role model to copy (how many wore helmets I wonder)

, which in turn supports my #1 and #3
2, Dragons are well known for their charisma, her most important criteria was his nobility, about the rest what was she going to say... "Hey Uggo I need a baby, but luckily I can close my eyes",

(dragons are famous for blowing fire, but they also blow smoke, if she really found him attractive she wouldn't have needed a special pastry)
3, Supports my #3) point, just need to make sure the appropriate sexual bits line up, why take the form of an ugly human when you have the ability to look more like a glorious dragon with gleaming horns and a sensual tail.
I'm not sure why you are even arguing

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