You clearly view her motivations and actions through shit colored glasses. How did she harass or force anything lol. She simply wants to be more involved and take their relationship forward. She wants to be the one to share his burdens and bla bla bla.When that big of a tragedy happens, almost every possible action is justified. You can close the doors, curtains and cry in your home. You can go to a bar with a dear friend. You can pick a fight with your piece of shit ex husband/wife. You can bet on and race in illegal racing. You can fuck around. You can go bungee jumping. You can even go bungee jumping without the rope. These are all justified and they all have one thing in common, they won't really help. They might ease some of the burden but end result will not differ. That's why I don't hold anything against Allie, she's going through the same thing, her actions are too justified. Considering MC is almost always sure that he will make things right (sometimes even stupidly optimistic about it) I'm not surprised the bar option is the one he selected to go with.
Truth be told, going to a bar and making jokes isn't what I would've done either. But let's say that the MC is an asshole, he can't care less that his daughter just become an eggplant. That doesn't make it okay for anyone other than MC and Allie to act them any less sensitively. MC being an asshole doesn't change the events from V's perspective one bit. Still her fuckbuddy's (notice how I'm not saying "boyfriend" or husband) daughter just had an accident and went into a coma. You try to communicate with him, he rejects. You have few options here too. You can try to communicate more subtly (without harassing), you can just be there for him no need for a verbal communication, you can fuck off until he's ready to communicate with you, you can even try to goad him to get some sort of reaction for his sake not for your ulterior motive, basically anything but trying to push your own agenda on him. These are the options... if you're not a total asshole yourself. Sadly, that's the case for V. She could've done anything and I would've been ok with it, as long as I believe her intentions are pure. But she tried to force her fb into submission because she's losing him (that's the probelm, she's not losing here, MC is simply not hers to lose, few fucks and not implying anything more in any shape or form doesn't make MC her bitch). I understand she can get jealous bc every other woman in this game is better looking and flirts with mc, but that doesn't give her the right to force MC to do anything.
I probably still would've been ok if she didn't have the majority of the current content. Since there isn't anything I can do about that, bitching is my most fun option
Yes, she is clingy. She is insecure and jealous. But her heart is in the right place. There is no malice in her actions. Some selfishness derived from insecurity? Sure, we can make that read. But all in all, she is just a woman in love. Not some psychopath. She got some red flags just like everyone else in this story. No one is your picture perfect LI.
You have girls like Jas that is intentionally trying to be a homewrecker despite understanding full well that there is something something going on between the professors. And you got the Russian corporate espionage spy woman who is trying to get his research for some purpose. You got the ex-wife that... no, I agree that she has every right to be a cunt to MC lol.
And the script itself alludes to the fact that his divorce is just an excuse to keep Veronica at arm's length. Sure, he doesn't want to commit after just getting out of a divorce. Perfectly understandable. But depending on how you play the choices, you can really lead her on. And if you pick all the asshole options, well, MC is being an asshole to this woman. Clearly, this woman wants to be something more than a booty call, and MC knows this. Their goals don't align, and he could have ended things on a good note instead of fucking around until she breaks. But that's also asking a lot of the MC. It doesn't fall entirely on him to sort out their complicated relationship. Her breaking things off and the talk they finally have also makes sense. None of this is Veronica "forcing" or "harassing" the MC.