TonyMurray
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- Apr 8, 2024
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I think he meant options with regard to what to do - leave, try X, Y, or Z to make things work, etc. It's not about options of who to fuck - he even said "had options and still chose to put his dick in someone else."No, he didn't have any options then... he does in the present. That cunt only flirted with Jake a few times and they skipped to the fun part. Why would he be stupid enough to fuck Allison's damn co-worker, of all women, if he had so 'many' options like you claim and not simply hook up with some random ho at the club, bar, or fuck knows where else without risking his wife finding out about it and divorcing him like she did ??![]()
I don't think people are doing that. When I read these really repetitive arguments, it's mostly people putting the blame of cheating on the MC. They are saying he is 100% to blame for cheating on Allie, they are not saying that because he cheated he is 100% to blame for their divorce.My point is this... stop using the cheating part of their divorce as a cheap excuse to blame everything on the MC
The way I see it, this is the only bit that's up for discussion, because some people see it differently. By saying this, you're suggesting that Allie shares the blame for MC cheating. Maybe you're even suggesting she pushed him to do it. But I say that's wrong. The person cheating is the only one who can cross that line. He is 100% to blame for it. This goes back to Milton's point - he had options in response to the relationship breaking down (what you word as the "reasons to do it"), but he's the one who chose to cheat on his wife instead of taking any of those other options. Allie didn't make him cheat. That's all on him.Don't want your partner cheating on you, don't give them reasons to do it. Period.
If Allie "gave MC reasons to do it", the correct response is for MC to walk away. Then, it's on Allie. But MC didn't walk away, he went and fucked someone else. That's on him. Allie is not responsible for that, and to suggest she is is just a deflection. He could easily have left her and then fucked someone else.