The story changes drastically between the Hate and Reconciliatory approach. The devs really pushed "responsibility" to one or the other... as in almost a complete role swap. Yes I know both were at fault, but they really go out of their way to try and set primary ownership on one or the other.I completely agree. The MC should get a damn gold medal for courage and superior pair of balls for being able to resist for years in a loveless marriage with all that nagging, neglecting, constant arguing and barely any intimacy and hints of love still being left between them, not to get his balls busted for doing what at least 7/10 men would've done in his case. I know I wouldn't put up with it, and I'm pretty sure at least 9/10 women IRL wouldn't either, not for that long, which is why I think their reconciliation is nothing more than a big ass fan service to whoever's interested in her.
If you are on the Hate path, MC says it was Allie who turned the marriage loveless, was never home, always working, and ignored him. And she doesn't disagree.
If you are on the reconciliatory path, Allie says the MC turned the marriage loveless, he was always gone, always working on Delilah, never home, and broke her heart when he spent more time under Delilah than her. MC even owns up to it on a few of the scenes.
The devs really went out of their way to diverge that part of the storyline, and it makes it really complex to discuss as you have to caveat your take with the path you took as the story changes.