motseer
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No worries, m8. As to correlation... I wasn't trying for that originally. I was just pointing to the fact that we aren't privy to the why's of what MC did. Yes, he cheated. Yes, that's wrong. But I can tell you from personal experience - it gets tempting as hell. When you (ideally) should have unlimited access to all the great sex you could ever want or handle with your one true love and instead find yourself doing without... Well, let's just say... Fidelity gets a bit dry, crusty and hard to swallow.Sorry didnt tried to offend you or something if you took it like that and good for you! And you did it the right way imo, if the marriage isnt working and theres no way to bring it back to life, a divorce is the best option but cheating behind the back of someone who loves you and trusts you is not.
There is no false accusations in this avn, it happened and with a coworker and everyone knows about it. Which makes the circumstances VERY different from your personal experience.
So i dont really get the correlation, you did the right move, the mc of race of life did not (imo). He could have divorced allison and dated veronice (or whoever) and allison wouldnt have the right to be this angry. Just sayin
And anyway im not trying to convince you of anything, i just thought its funny how our opinions are the complete opposite and felt your judging allison way too harsh but of course youre free to do so
Having said all that. I'm not meaning to excuse MC or blame Allison. I'm just saying that a marriage that ends despite the counterweight of children has probably got a lot more wrong with it than a weak will and it's demise is never the fault of just one party.
In the story, we are several years down the road from their divorce. MC seems to be trying to make amends and acts (at least somewhat) repentant. Allison just annoys me because she can't seem to help herself and continually beats him over the head with his past. There is a lot of dialogue where that attitude carries over into an assumption that he is also, therefore, a bad father. In short she pisses me off and I don't like her. So, my version of MC will treat her with respect while being the best father he is allowed to be and show absolutely no interest in her beyond that. The situation with the coma will inadvertently cause (my) MC to show more compassion toward Allison while also stepping up to prove his dedication to his family. Ultimately, Allison will come to realize what she missed out on because she couldn't forgive and forget.
As you have said. We have different opinions about that part of the story and both of us (obviously) feel strongly about them. That's a good thing... and the mark of well told tale.