guidedbyvoices
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From my experience with those women and what I could make of after reading about those personality disorders, I think their main drive isn't to be happy (as in, what's conventionally considered to be happy) but to be able to have as many emotional outburst as they want, when they want, with the least amount of repercussions. It's like they didn't develop a fully adult personality, they got stuck somewhere between a (moody) child and a (moody) teenager and that's where their worst behaviour comes from, like intentionally creating problems, sabotaging the peace, being attention whores...Finally, someone who gets it. I wholeheartedly agree, my man.I personally consider ALL women deserve to be loved, respected, supported unconditionally and cherished (especially) IRL and in fiction, but all those sweet things fly out the window the next sec women themselves say through their own words and/or actions they don't deserve this treatment.
Accountability for one's own words and actions and Allison seem to mix as good as fire and water or oil and water do. She loved the MC soo much she still holds a grudge against him after a few years since the divorce, but she didn't really put that much effort into saving their marriage, and ironically, she expected from him to do the same things he expected from her, including the sexual aspect of the marriage.
This is why they not only don't want a peaceful and stable relationship, but they actively sabotage it when they feel it got too peaceful and stable.
Inside this faulty logic, she did nothing wrong by being a moody bitch, she thinks he had no reason to cheat on her because she wasn't cheating on him. This is why she is so angry, besides pride, because she doesn't feel he had a reason, since it's his job in the relationship to put up with her being a moody bitch.
Those two idiots deserve each other and should get back together just so we could see them trying to kill each other for the most trivial nonsense you can think of, smfh.