I have the feeling you both take it a bit too serious, its usually just a bit of fun trashtalking esp with the
xXwankerXx and his delusional preference for meaty thick chicks who never backtalk but its all in good fun.
I said it at another point already, imo it speaks for this avn that is has polarizing characters, no matter if someone dislikes Veronica or Allison as a LI, both are strong characters as a part of the story to invoke any kind of feelings towards them (positive or negative).
Lets be honest, most avn characters are so bland that you simply dont care.