Oops sorry, haven't checked this place in a while.
Is there a way to change the graphic settings?
Is there something specific you want to have control on? Or is it a wish for a full graphic settings menu?
crotch breasts
I will probably try to get Milky Way in soon-ish, although I'm 99% sure it will end up like Shining Armor: kinda wonky and not really compatible with the rest. Root problem is lack of model with integrated crotchtits.
ejaculations
I wish, but transparent fluid simulations aren't available yet for the renderer I'm using. Might never will, Unity isn't doing great lately with finishing features they started.
limit the FPS to 60 max?
Go to "Ramage_Data" open "Configuration.ini" add a new line "LimitFPS:60" (or whatever other number you want).
i actually like the show too much to enjoy this content
The "Ponies are for hug, not for fug" mindset isn't really uncommon.
If you want cute VR pony content; PonyVRville still work on modern hardware iirc, and Legend of Equestria has a VR mode too - plus a few of their maps exported to VRChat.
Edit:
Just realized your pirate link point to 2.021b.
Fair warning: this one had a dumb bug inducing seizures in non-grounded back legs.