Generally I'm the same (though not specifically having that game as my "gold standard" — don't think I have a specific game as that). I'm not opposed to developers being on Patreon, even if I'm opposed to the platform itself. But everyone feels differently about all of these kinds of things. I agree that if you complain about a platform but then subscribe to folks on there, I don't think that person has a leg to stand on. And while there are some (many, even) scumbag developers out there, I make it a default position to be on their side, to help encourage their creative endeavors... unless they themselves do something to drive me away — milking subscribers, refusing to listen to or outright insulting those offering constructive feedback, etc.
Anyway, I know a lot of people have their issues with SW for whatever reason. I'm neutral on incest and don't hold against a developer whatever platform they choose (though it might mean I don't support them financially when I otherwise would). I suppose it's because of those points that I have been perfectly fine with him throughout his VN career. I'm not championing him or anything; I just don't have an issue with him.
To be frank, I think practically every developer has money as their primary motivator. If they didn't, they could never go full-time and would always be putting in 18+-hour days for forever (between their RL jobs and their game development). They still need to put food on the table; they still have rent to pay; they still need to subsist in all the other ways of basic human needs. Many developers also have families they support. If they ignored money as a primary motivator, they'd abandon all RL relationships and their health would rapidly decline. Sometimes, that even results in death.
There have been several developers who died because of physical health issues, and several others who eventually abandon their work because their mental health collapses. I want developers to keep themselves as physically and mentally healthy as possible. One reason is obviously so they can keep working on their creations. But I do have more reasons than that to want them healthy, though.
Anyway, I think SuperWriter is in the same position as most other developers: he needs to live off of whatever income he can generate, which means he has some decisions he has to make from a purely business perspective. Will what he's doing allow him to continue to work regularly on VNs, or will his supporter numbers shrink and force him into looking for earning elsewhere? Entrepreneurs (which solo or small game developers are) have to make difficult decisions, ones that are almost never supported by everyone.