It's true, the female path has bestiality, while the male has none it. Edit: There is no bestiality where the male MC gets it himself, but he can watch or take part in at last one group activity - if I remember right. The male mc has more with your companions I think.
While I usually aren't the type for that, I suggest runs with both. It has enough content that it shouldn't get boring. Maybe wait for the final update, saves won't be compatible (again

). I'm not sure if there is a release date for that yet..