Not exactly, even in the actual gallery, it's noticeable. The only thing fem protag has more than male is bestiality and stuff like that. Most companions have like 2 maybe 3 exclusive scenes with her and a lot with the male. Take the example of Clawyn, she had, before these last updates 2 scenes with female protag, while the male had 9. Even now still is unfair since with exception of the newest scene male also gained other scenes with her.
Farm mom has like 4 or more scenes with male protag throughout the game, the female has 1, and so on. So, like I said unless it's a gangbang or being used on bestiality. Female protag has very little when it counts to companions or important NPCs.
Have in mind that I'm talking about the exclusive scenes with her, not the shared ones since they are for both.