It's the internet, so of course people are going to be mindlessly awful just to be awful and there's been plenty of that, but there has been genuine criticism offered here. It's the fact that it's been 3 years, and the narrative of this game hasn't moved forward in any significant way. Not every update needs to feature sex scenes, but the actual plot of the game is only creeping forward. One of the big concepts that serves as a selling point of this game is being able to shape and guide Paula, and that's not really come to pass after all these years.
And the criticism isn't coming from a place of jealous or personal hatred towards you, despite how you might take it. If anything, it's coming from a place of frustration because the concept and characters of this game are good/interesting. Some people genuinely want you to be better because you've actually got a potential gem here.
My "personal" answer was in the context of the "Fire the Dev / I Hate the Dev" commenters here - it is
actually what some people here wrote.
As for genuine criticism, I think I replied anyone and everyone who did that - to some, explaining why I do things as I do them, and to others (admittedly fewer) saying thanks and changing my plans accordingly.
As for the fact that we haven't started reshaping Paula yet:
In the game, only about 16 hours had passed - a night, a morning, a noon and now we're at the late afternoon.
So really no time for anything to happen except for planting the ideas in characters' heads.
There actually were already two choices you've had to make regarding Paula's physique.
Also, almost all the main plot lines have started - including the conspiracies surrounding Paula from the teacher's and the new TV series she'll start to film.