i always find it funny that people throw a fit over human male x feral female stuff but human female x feral male is run of the mill
Well, it's because for each sex, there is a different focus on what sexuality entails.
Females care less about
aesthetics and more about
ability while for males it's the other way round.
Furry for males it is more about the dislike for human females (bad courtship behavior) while furry for females is more about finding human males insufficient (bad sexual experiences). Heck, that's similar to why so many become gay despite having no biological (pheromonic) preference and simply low levels of testosterone/estrogen which would make them averse. The civilized male has plenty of reasons for disliking real females which in return also causes the phenomenon
where have all the good men gone.
Plenty of expectations are placed on males after all while females only need to look acceptable and act amiable. Those who do are however keepers and long gone from the pool of bachelorettes. It's because plenty marry out of passionate love that plenty divorce when the passion is gone.
Comfy Love is quite rare and also what makes one a keeper.
Now, last but not least and because of all that, for males, it is more of a bad omen (for all) if they distance themselves from humanity and just consider
every hole is a goal. Meanwhile for females one (mostly males) can consider it simply sexual and
hot. Or humiliating/feeling superior. There is also that for in contrary to males, females have other
avenues (than sex) for humiliating... everyone. Openly. Legally. Free of Consequence.
(Males only gossip in their safe spaces)