Yeah, real world's a bitch. Some things happening out there make you grind your teeth in literal rage. And while I have some controversial fetishes, any real-world example also makes me uncomfortable. But, like, as adults, we should have enough sense to know what's game and what's reality. Besides, a game(porn or not) is also a safe place to let yourself go and explore things you wouldn't do in the real world. It also sometimes helps deal with trauma, as someone pointed out.
And contrary to some people, I don't cater to the belief of linking real-world crime with games. Also, this goes without saying, on this site, I don't feel anyone needs to be ashamed of any fetish they have, even if it's controversial.
This is why I like games where I have lots of choices and lots of options. I don't like games that shove something on the player(such as a sexual partner or a fetish they hate) without giving them the option to avoid it. But not, at least, having the option to try is also somewhat of a bummer.
(Also, this might not matter, but while instant mind-control as presented in the game is fantasy, cults and such do use drugs, mental conditioning, and brainwashing to similar effects. There are some crazy fucked up shits happening in the real world that even our darkest fantasies can't emulate. So yeah, real world's a bitch of the highest calibre.)