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So, why the hate on NTR?

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I mean, this is sadly no different from real life where a woman who sleeps with 50 men is a slag, but a man who sleeps with 50 women is a stud.
There is a reason for that though, the ease of acquirement. Far more women have slept with 50 men than men have slept with 50 women. I am not picking a side, just stating the truth on that.

To be honest that may form another part of the NTR hate 'I finally got one, and this happens' - its a very real fear when getting into a relationship.
 
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There is a reason for that though, the ease of acquirement. Far more women have slept with 50 men than men have slept with 50 women. I am not picking a side, just stating the truth on that.

To be honest that may form another part of the NTR hate 'I finally got one, and this happens' - its a very real fear when getting into a relationship.
I am unsure where you get your numbers from but all the evidence I've seen in the past is that men have more average partners than women.

More to the point though, even if your numbers were accurate, it still wouldn't explain why we penalise one gender over the other.
 
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Internet bias. Reality is different.
Not really. This one is a personal observation, female friends for example can find a rebound very quickly, many of the guys cant. I think this also comes down to social skills as well, so its not simple

I am unsure where you get your numbers from but all the evidence I've seen in the past is that men have more average partners than women.

More to the point though, even if your numbers were accurate, it still wouldn't explain why we penalise one gender over the other.
I have had very close female friends over the years, and not the 'in the friend zone' type. The truth is like you said, one has a stigma, but a friend of mine once gave me some advice which is double what a woman tells you, halve what a man tells you.

Just like there is pressure to be innocent on women, the opposite is true of guys. I also have gone to gay bars with gay friends before, and I can tell you men will offer it alot more than women. Getting a girl is way harder.
 

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I have had very close female friends over the years, and not the 'in the friend zone' type. The truth is like you said, one has a stigma, but a friend of mine once gave me some advice which is double what a woman tells you, halve what a man tells you.

Just like there is pressure to be innocent on women, the opposite is true of guys. I also have gone to gay bars with gay friends before, and I can tell you men will offer it alot more than women. Getting a girl is way harder.
That's entirely fair but also highly subjective. I would prefer to rely on empirical data (and yes some people will always lie).
 
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What i was saying before is I think alot of people use NTR as the punching bag to feel better about their own kinks 'well I just like Guru Scat Bestiality, at least I'm not a cuck'. That and it is such a simple concept to get across, doesn't really take much in the way of understanding it.
What. It's porn. There are either more porn scenes, or there aren't. It's that simple. Quite sure you're getting cucked to the tentacles anyway. In your fetish probably everything else.

There's either more content or there's less.
 
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That's entirely fair but also highly subjective. I would prefer to rely on empirical data (and yes some people will always lie).
In that case look into the empirical date around dating apps

What. It's porn. There are either more porn scenes, or there aren't. It's that simple. Quite sure you're getting cucked to the tentacles anyway. In your fetish probably everything else.

There's either more content or there's less.
Yeh i raised this earlier, all porn in some way is watching someone do someone you want to do yourself. Some people just seem to go further and want to repeat that but with their wife as the girl instead of a stranger.
 
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Only if you think in terms of science and centuries. For living human beings it's a long damn time. Don't try to force a perspective on something that doesn't even require the forced perspective.
It's even recent in terms of humans. I think you're being overly pedantic, and that comes from me - Mr Pedantic
 
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In that case look into the empirical date around dating apps
I mean, I'm sorry but all you've done here is shift from general claims into personal anecdotes and now into dating app behaviour. If you shift the goalposts anymore we're going to be in an entirely different stadium.

The main point here is that regardless of what the numbers show, nothing explains (let alone justifies) the penalties applied to women who are more sexually active vs men, and this has been the same historically when we know for absolutely certain that women had far less sexual freedom.
 

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There is a reason for that though, the ease of acquirement. Far more women have slept with 50 men than men have slept with 50 women. I am not picking a side, just stating the truth on that.

To be honest that may form another part of the NTR hate 'I finally got one, and this happens' - its a very real fear when getting into a relationship.
That is NOT the truth. That is a falsehood.



but a friend of mine once gave me some advice
Your friend was biased.

And because it met your world view, or fed into it, you accepted the lie.
 

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In that case look into the empirical date around dating apps


Yeh i raised this earlier, all porn in some way is watching someone do someone you want to do yourself. Some people just seem to go further and want to repeat that but with their wife as the girl instead of a stranger.
The donkey/dog is NTR. The dildo named something is NTR. The tentacles are NTR. However in a specific NTR game, who cares so long as there is more porn.

It's only for idiots with nothing better to do than make some kind of a critique about it and how caused the offense. Anybody else playing porn didn't care. Literally. There's more content or there isn't. Obviously the game does matter. If you're getting femdom, or a little stupid cuck, or something.

Obviously the debate becomes what's NTR, how good a NTR game is it, and what not. It's a game, it by large didn't matter, so long as it provided porn. The genre. The tag has been loosely attributed to a number of things. It's somebody else fucking her, your something, and eventually perhaps being more than that. Did it matter in Porn. It wasn't you anyway. It's a game. More, or less content.
 

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when we know for absolutely certain that women had far less sexual freedom.
Ah yes, the cunning way women had sex and their future husbands didn't know thinking they were marrying pure and innocent virgins by never having vaginal sex but having anal sex as much as they want before they marry.
 

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Ah yes, the cunning way women had sex and men didn't know. Proving women are virgin but never having vaginal sex, meanwhile having anal sex as much as they want.
That isn't what was being implied or explicated.

Women have historically had less sexual freedom and less sexual rights than men.
 
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I mean, I'm sorry but all you've done here is shift from general claims into personal anecdotes and now into dating app behaviour. If you shift the goalposts anymore we're going to be in an entirely different stadium.

The main point here is that regardless of what the numbers show, nothing explains (let alone justifies) the penalties applied to women who are more sexually active vs men, and this has been the same historically when we know for absolutely certain that women had far less sexual freedom.
You didn't want anecdotes but wanted empirical evidence, well the behaviors around dating apps are just that. The double standards exist because historically birth control wasn't a thing. I am not agreeing with it, but that's that. There is a reason that most feminists applaud the invention of the pill.

That is NOT the truth. That is a falsehood.




Your friend was biased.

And because it met your world view, or fed into it, you accepted the lie.
nothing is ever so simple

How do you account for prostitution

Then look at prostitution - a female dominated industry, where most the men involved are also hired by men.
 
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