Did I ask anything from the Dev? I am not obsessed by tags, but, there are things I simply learned that don't agree with me, both game wise and story wise. You want to tell a story, fine, tell it. I've read many, will read many more. But, those weren't tags imposed on the Dev, those are tags that the Dev CHOSE themselves.
So, people should simply accept anything, with absolutely no critical sense, just because somebody was charitative enough to create it? In your view, saying that I will not read this or that because there are themes that I have learned by experience that don't agree with me, makes me a bully. And your entire rant about my choices, isn't?
How dare I, right? How dare I to even have the gall of telling people in a forum thread that I don't want to read things that glorify acts that I detest. Whatever those acts may be. How dare I ask for a clarification of what is there, when I didn't even ask for anything from the Dev, but from the fellow readers.
If a Dev doesn't know that some themes are controversial, it's probably a bad omen for what they are writing. If they do and decide to include it, then, asking for a clarification isn't bad form. I don't need to have the whole story plan or to be fully spoilered, just a why that is there, besides the obvious that it is there because they want.
Would this happen in dead trees media? No. You'd get to the middle of the book, stumble into a bad (for your tastes) plot point, and would have to decide if you'd continue to read or not. I, as a compulsive reader, many times clenched my literal teeth and pushed on, since I couldn't go to the author and ask, what is your idea here? where is this going? So I pushed on.
Now, now we can. That it may irk some authors, OK, but, it is their choice, both to include and to explain it. I, now, have the choice to consume their art, or not, based on any criteria that I stipulate, even before I spent any money on it. It is the reality of this new medium.
Apparently, from your comments, you either want people to not have a choice, or, you want people to shut up about their choices. You want a return to the Dead Trees media? You want gag orders on people. And I am the bully?
Peace