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I'm 62, so I was there during many of our changes. Young enough to adopt the new ways without resistance, but old enough to know how behaviors and protocols were before.The important thing was, I'm 100% sure that this developer wasn't trying to write a rape game. Alcohol was one of a large number of necessary components, and the rest weren't "rapey." I think people just weren't thinking about it that way, "back then." And "back then" wasn't that long ago. There's a lot of room for debate on this whole thing.
Tlaero
I'm reminded of my perspective on the song "Baby, it's Cold Outside." To modern sensibilities, it can be seen as rather rapey. It appears that the pursuer is not accepting the other's "No," and is plying them with drinks to wear them down. This is from a perspective of women who can say yes as well as no. In historical context, the song's scenario takes place at a time when women were still largely constrained by society. A "good girl" wasn't free to say yes. The song illustrates the dance she had to go through to be able to say yes and retain her "dignity." She talks about how her family will react, how society will react. By the end, she apparently feels that she completed the "at least I tried," ritual and can now agree. Most women in western society are empowered to give as well as withhold consent, so the dance appears much darker today.
Likewise, once we reached a point where women were actually allowed to drink socially, some young women felt the need to get themselves slightly inebriated in order to lower inhibitions and society's voice in the back of their head. Like Tlaero and other have said, where were still unsafe ne'er do wells would push a woman too far, from less inhibited to incapacitated. The original developer may have been using alcohol as little more than "social lubricant," without realizing the greater implications in the modern world.
I ended up losing interest, not because of the game, but the incessant discussing of the mechanics of the "Mascaraed" universe and how it applied to Rebith. The forum drained all interest I had in the game.Oh, definitely. I'm still 100% invested in the game