You seem to know quite a lot about this. Since you're an expert, why not make your own game with amazing lighting? I'd be very happy to play that when you do.
I would recommend you just ignore the discussion on this website and focus on Discord and other places. You can't win against cockroaches like this. Sure, you can try squashing one, but there are just a lot more out there that you won't find time to deal with one by one.
Few will provide feedback or opinions for other people to see, but the majority of the people just move on and spend their time elsewhere if they don't like the game
In case you misunderstand my point, constructive feedback is always welcome, but just saying, "it is easy", "I can do better", or things that like that is the part that I don't like.
Also, random people, feel free to quote me or try to argue with me. I don't really care what you will say to me.
