I was cheating on stamina and health to make up for having forgotten to sleep, so that's where my non-alcoholic looseness came from !!!! thanks I'll make sure to actually sleep sometimes now.Horniness (I assume you mean arousal) and looseness are two different things. Having sex increases your looseness a tiny bit unless you are having lots of drinks too. You need a full night's sleep to clear out your looseness.
One needs to have looseness over 40 to pass out. I'm not sure it's possible to get there without drinking or not sleeping.
This was a bug at some point (I believe the gambling process allowed to force the loser to join but that was fixed). I don't see a way in which it can still happen. If it's still happening then yes, it's a bug. (What can happen is that a member can run for and be elected commissioner).